spiritual, and emotional benefits of the institution
What are these?
spiritual, and emotional benefits of the institution
i cant even get into a relationship so marriage would be for me
i dont want to be indifferent to my spouse
You haven't met the woman yet.
if u aint gone spit out another seed 4 me then u aint helping
I'm trying to help you not give up on what you clearly want. You can't predict your love future. You don't know what's going to happen, hoe. Go fukk and be merry until that time comes.
My uterus is closed for business.
I'm trying to help you not give up on what you clearly want. You can't predict your love future. You don't know what's going to happen, hoe. Go fukk and be merry until that time comes.
My uterus is closed for business.
GOALS AND VISIONS ARE NOT THE SAME. GOALS ARE APART OF YOUR VISION. YOUR VISION USUALLY DICTATE YOUR GOALS. YOU SET GOALS THAT USUALLY FOLLOW YOUR VISION. YOUR GOALS CHANGE WITH LIFE. YOU CHANGE YOUR GOALS IN ORDER TO LINE UP WITH YOUR VISION FOR YOUR LIFE. IF YOU ATTAIN ALL YOUR MATERIAL GOALS AND YOU HAVE TO SAY "WHAT ELSE" THEN YOU REALLY DIDN'T HAVE A VISION TO START WITH. YOU JUST WANTED STUFF.
IT'S KINDA HARD FOR ME TO PUT IT INTO WORDS. BEST I CAN SAY IS YOUR VISION IS YOUR REASON. ANYBODY CAN MAKE GOALS BUT THE QUESTION IS WHY? WHY DO YOU WANT 1 KID? WHY DO YOU WANT A HOUSE? WHY DO YOU WANT THIS PARTICULAR TYPE OF WOMAN? WHY DO YOU WANT THIS DEGREE?
ANSWER ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS AND ASK YOURSELF IF YOU COULD GET THE END RESULT WITHOUT THAT ITEM WOULD YOU CHANGE IT? IF YOU WILL THEN YOU COULD CHANGE YOUR GOAL BUT THE VISION IS STILL THERE.
WHY FOR?
I already have one and I'm in the process of building a more stable financial foundation for her and myself. By the time that's all said and factoring in the it would take to meet someone to have another child with, I think I'll just be too old and I don't want to be old with a newborn.
People shouldnt have to convince anyone about the value of marriage. If the financial, spiritual, and emotional benefits of the institution dont speak to you, then so be it.
But the get married breh coalition are largely sad sack losers. Because they dont possess the confidence in maintaining a union, ( if their not gay that is,) they want to discourage others in pursuing their happiness.
@Marty Kaan exposed how stupid the get married sht is, by doing the same thing to prove a point. Ultimately the whole movement is just anti woman, where scorned males justify their bitterness, by cherrypicking stories that make women look bad, and orienting that around their Self victimhood.
Most people here are pro small business, right? Well small business fail at a higher rate than marriages, yet u dont see posters here starting thread after thread, every day, about stories of people losing their life savings in a failed venture, with "start a business breh" tagline. That would be retarded.
Nothing meaningful in life doesnt come without risk. 50% success rate are pretty good odds, and if one is smart about the pursuit of a significant other, those odds cant help but increase.
GOALS AND VISIONS ARE NOT THE SAME. GOALS ARE APART OF YOUR VISION. YOUR VISION USUALLY DICTATE YOUR GOALS. YOU SET GOALS THAT USUALLY FOLLOW YOUR VISION. YOUR GOALS CHANGE WITH LIFE. YOU CHANGE YOUR GOALS IN ORDER TO LINE UP WITH YOUR VISION FOR YOUR LIFE. IF YOU ATTAIN ALL YOUR MATERIAL GOALS AND YOU HAVE TO SAY "WHAT ELSE" THEN YOU REALLY DIDN'T HAVE A VISION TO START WITH. YOU JUST WANTED STUFF.
IT'S KINDA HARD FOR ME TO PUT IT INTO WORDS. BEST I CAN SAY IS YOUR VISION IS YOUR REASON. ANYBODY CAN MAKE GOALS BUT THE QUESTION IS WHY? WHY DO YOU WANT 1 KID? WHY DO YOU WANT A HOUSE? WHY DO YOU WANT THIS PARTICULAR TYPE OF WOMAN? WHY DO YOU WANT THIS DEGREE?
ANSWER ANY OF THOSE QUESTIONS AND ASK YOURSELF IF YOU COULD GET THE END RESULT WITHOUT THAT ITEM WOULD YOU CHANGE IT? IF YOU WILL THEN YOU COULD CHANGE YOUR GOAL BUT THE VISION IS STILL THERE.
And it's not a race thing. All races have these same issues
White women are quicker to divorce than any other race of women
A lot of white men are left in shock when their wife of 20+ years files for divorce while they're in their 40s and early 50s. Usually after the youngest child has left for college.
Most of the time they stay for the kids, but they have decided years ago that they did not want stay with you forever. They just didn't want to raise their kids outside of a family structure.
So now because they've been married 20+ years she is entitled to alimony (type depends on numerous factors). She's now divorced getting her MILF on because she has already raised her kids and has no desire to start a family.
He'll be paying her for the next 20 years or so.
So tell me how did he benefit from marriage?
People shouldnt have to convince anyone about the value of marriage. If the financial, spiritual, and emotional benefits of the institution dont speak to you, then so be it.
But the get married breh coalition are largely sad sack losers. Because they dont possess the confidence in maintaining a union, ( if their not gay that is,) they want to discourage others in pursuing their happiness.
@Marty Kaan exposed how stupid the get married sht is, by doing the same thing to prove a point. Ultimately the whole movement is just anti woman, where scorned males justify their bitterness, by cherrypicking stories that make women look bad, and orienting that around their Self victimhood.
Most people here are pro small business, right? Well small business fail at a higher rate than marriages, yet u dont see posters here starting thread after thread, every day, about stories of people losing their life savings in a failed venture, with "start a business breh" tagline. That would be retarded.
Nothing meaningful in life doesnt come without risk. 50% success rate are pretty good odds, and if one is smart about the pursuit of a significant other, those odds cant help but increase.
I'm trying to help you not give up on what you clearly want. You can't predict your love future. You don't know what's going to happen, hoe. Go fukk and be merry until that time comes.
My uterus is closed for business.