I fu©ked up extra heavily and accepted an invitation to an event I have no business attending. Help.

[Black Panther]

This should be a non issue in reference to your attendance - and you shouldn't refer to white people as your "friends". What makes you consider him your "friend"?

Be careful who you associate with in social settings. Never know with them.

it's white people food though

@Nicole0416 racist as hell

 

[﹏﹏⛴﹏﹏﹏﹏﹏]

Self defeating attitudes become a self fulfilling prophecy. Get out of your own head for once in your life and live in the moment.

I would claim I'm more of a cynic than a self-defeatist. At the end of the day, I have self-confidence and I believe there's a fine line between self-confidence and delusion. I don't have any entitlement or expectation towards being seen as desirable.

 

[southern.girl]

Bring a friend and gift. The friend will help keep you occupied. You don't have to stay the whole reception...

If you do not get a +1 in the invite, do not do this. Weddings can cost $50+ per head.

it's white people food though

If they have some type of money, there’s probably a black chef in the back. It won’t be soul food, but I don’t automatically assume that it will be nasty either.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

@Nicole0416 racist as hell

Black people can't be racist.. . and I'm just making sure that he keeps his guard up against these white identity extremists. He shouldn't go around using that term "friend" so loosely with them. Never ends well.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

If they have some type of money, there’s probably a black chef in the back. It won’t be soul food, but I don’t automatically assume that it will be nasty either.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

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I understand your perspective. This a teammate who extended an invitation to me. We have put in work over years in games, practices, off-season workouts. And grew a friendship.

Curious... what sport would this be? Not trying to come at you, I think you sound like a genuine person and I like your overall attitude.

 

[jaguar paw]

Walk directly up to the bride and kiss her in the mouth.

 

[Don Diego]

Don't seem like u see dude to often. That being said I say dress appropriately get drunk and have a good time. That liquid courage might turn your night into something memorable.

 

[﹏﹏⛴﹏﹏﹏﹏﹏]

If you do not get a +1 in the invite, do not do this. Weddings can cost $50+ per head.



If they have some type of money, there’s probably a black chef in the back. It won’t be soul food, but I don’t automatically assume that it will be nasty either.

The groom himself told me I can bring a plus one. I don't have one, though.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I should have included I'm not desirable .

You're probably more desirable than you think. People that come off as humble and casual, are usually more engaging and visually appealing than they think they are. The low-key qualities are attractive to some people. Bragging or overconfidence is a turn off and can make someone instantly unattractive imo.

 

[﹏﹏⛴﹏﹏﹏﹏﹏]

Curious... what sport would this be? Not trying to come at you, I think you sound like a genuine person and I like your overall attitude.

Thank you. Football.

Straight up, I'm not trying to impress or show out. My goals are basic: be presentable, be respectful, and be on my way out.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

As I said before, I'm not desirable. So this doesn't apply to me.

Stop watching porn and masterbating breh

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Thank you. Football.

Straight up, I'm not trying to impress or show out. My goals are basic: be presentable, be respectful, and be on my way out.

.. you seem like you got this...

 

[﹏﹏⛴﹏﹏﹏﹏﹏]

You're probably more desirable than you think. People that come off as humble and casual, are usually more engaging and visually appealing than they think they are. The low-key qualities are attractive to some people. Bragging or overconfidence is a turn off and can make someone instantly unattractive imo.

Thank you, but I don't think you make that claim without actually knowing what I look like .

 

[southern.girl]

It’s messed up, but it can be true in some cases.

The groom himself told me I can bring a plus one. I don't have one, though.

Okay. That’s good to know. Will any of your other teammates be there? Perhaps you can catch up with them & leave early.