I Don't Enjoy Being Married

[Lord Bison]

Is she still fertile? Ill take her off ya hands. I'll raise ya sons to be better men than you too.

 

[Commish]

My brotha be careful who you chose council from. The internet is a gift and a curse it can give the illusion of camaraderie and familiarity but these are still strangers make no mistake. .

You got people telling you put the Bible down and seek therapy

So don’t trust that faulty man made Bible …..but do trust men who went to school and learned how to ask people questions…You on a site where one of the main slogans is ‘GMB’. This is not the place for marital advice. Find some like minded friends, married friends, men of faith. There’s nothing new under the sun what you’re going thru is not new. If you ultimately decide on divorce, don’t let it be bc the Coli told you so.

Also stay connected with your friends, get some hobbies. You may just be lonely bc you’re conflating your wife and kids with having friendships. They aren’t that you need something separate from them

You gave some sage advice! I hope OP take heed to your suggestions! Salute to ya!

 

[MikelArteta]

You'll divorce and probably regret it. In life we always want what we don't have and think things will be different.

I know a dude who was married slipped up and his wife left with his kids. He mentioned how he used to complain and long for the freedom but now he fights suicide thoughts daily and just stays home alone.

It's life we all go through ups and downs and ebbs and flows.

Seek counselling and then make a decision. The coli is full of heathens, sodomites, atheist scum and satanists.

 

[Mr.bocario]

Send her to one of those Mary Kay sex parties that women throw to sell toys or whatever. She'll be suckin it right in no time.

Have your girl perform on dancing bear brehs

 

[Uncle Trill]

Too late now. Should have thought about that when you married. Don't be breaking up a family and making these black women right about us.

The grass is always greener.

Single people wanna be in relationships and people I'm relationships wanna be single. When you learn that life will always suck no matter what position your in you learn to be content.

A while back I was gonna get engaged but I had the same thoughts as you and broke it off because I wasn't ready. 5 years later I wish I never let her go, but back then all I wanted was to be free of her. Humanbeings are confused pieces of shyt in general.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Damn king that was a very well written post Op. Have you contemplated marriage counseling? Maybe that can help?

 

[360dagod]

The problem is you feel you didn't do enough "testing" before you picked the car to drive off the lot with..

You got married cuz the Bible etc told you to do so, but you aint happy....

Now everything her and the kids do wrong becomes amplified because of the thoughts already circulating in your mind..

Basically you entered a peer pressure marriage...

 

[MMS]

@MMS

@Rhakim

@Uitomy

@Mowgli

@invalid

is the govt your god?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Yeah, being married sounds like it sucks. I have no idea why a man would think he'd want to pay a bunch of money to do that dumb shyt.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Imagine your wife leaving you and finding the man of her dreams, getting smutted out every night and having 2 or 3 more kids.

Imagine your son growing up without a solid father figure and becomes a fakkit and begins transitioning into a tranny.

Imagine you out there fukking around with 25 year old p*ssy, getting disillusioned by their interest and immaturity to get caught up in some bullshyt every other week.

Imagine being tied up with a 35 year old woman with baggage and scars, psst her prime look wise and set in her ways.

Now look at your wife and son and think about how all that other stuff is a waste of time.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

Lmaooooooooo

 

[Still Benefited]

Well you are in a godless marriage,I now pronounce you unrighteously detached.



Your devotion and sense of loyalty to your marriage? Its only a microcosm of your loyalty to this white supremacy system/the matrix.


You gave up on your loyalty to god,and took up loyalty to Babylon. So now all of your machinations involve dreams of being rich or famous,or known for bullshyt. Being "free" to fukk bytches,and see all Babylon has to offer. But your reality is financial responsibility to support your family,support them through their Babylon journey. Well,your dreams and your reality are both just a loyalty and desire to satisfy Babylon.



Now matter which choice you make,divorce or being free. You will still be right back at square one. Because you arent truly free at al,your matrix minded. Sadly you gave up one god for another,a g.m.o'd version of god,s.k.a Babylon. But choose whichever choice you want,Babylon will be fed anf satisfied regardless.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

You will be more powerful and happy once you realize you got the power to change your own life.

That regret and despair you feeling is something every breh goes through with or without kids and wife....its up to you to decide if you want to continue living a life of misery or chase your dreams.....don't use your wife and kids as excuse because you weren't chasing your dreams for 27 years before that.

I’m with this. The happiest married man I know (my brother in-law) went back to school to finish his bachelor’s and got his masters with two children. Got his dream job after that was complete. He followed his things while also being a great father.

Not sure what dude is looking for or expects will happen if he had no family but both can be done simultaneously while still having your own hobbies and stuff.

 

[Complexion]

Many people dont enjoy most of life really. They tolerate it due to lack of options and fear of the alternative. Dont worry though, there is a whole internet to front on and more distractions than the eyes can see to lose yourself in plus loads and loads of substances as well to take the edge off living in a carbon based prison.

Welcome to your life sentence.

 

[Dave24]

is the govt your god?

@MMS what do you mean?