I Don't Enjoy Being Married

[getmoney310cpt]

Op really just want to feel what being a bachelor fukking different bytches living life feel like..he been cuffing his whole life with the same bytch and it get lame but you thought that’s what you wanted so gotta live with it..

The grass ain’t greener if you don’t got the juice so just chill and be a square

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Breh let religion dictate his life and is having regrets, I sympathize bc I've known people who've done the same and came out of it very miserable. Honestly @CouldntBeMeTho

I left religion behind, and have been better for it. Out of respect for coli brehs I don't argue religion, if they're actually happy with it I'm happy for them

yea i know some guys who were religious, who were wanting to get married just so they could have sex lol.

sounds like op got hit with the okie doke

 

[I Really Mean It]

most marriages fail for a reason. staying with one person forever is not a recipe for happiness. we’re social creatures, part of which including a desire to meet new people and form bond with them, including sexual partners.

 

[Leasy]

I think your issue is that you still want to chase p*ssy and thats understandable we are men but you are letting it affect your emotions. Your marriage seem stagnant. You need to work for it to make it work. Do different things... have your wifr try more freaky shyt etc.. I been with my wife 15 plus years including marriage the shyt is a job.

 

[It's been real]

yea i know some guys who were religious, who were wanting to get married just so they could have sex lol.

sounds like op got hit with the okie doke

That's an L, even while religious I was still fukking broads, just was juelzing to myself

 

[Leasy]

Op really just want to feel what being a bachelor fukking different bytches living life feel like..he been cuffing his whole life with the same bytch and it get lame but you thought that’s what you wanted so gotta live with it..

The grass ain’t greener if you don’t got the juice so just chill and be a square

Yup and you have dudes that are single miserable as fukk wanting a real chick at home. These same dudes saved my ass plenty of times.

Men need role models and other men they can talk to. shyt helps real rap

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Im 39 single no kids no wife and grass aint green our here.If your wife respects you,your kids adore you stay .Marriage isnt suppose to be fun everyday.

 

[MrLogic]

Don't know what to tell you.

godspeed though.

 

[Studious one]

Wow. Deep. What exactly is the problem in your marriage? You didn’t specify.

 

[I'm Blackman]

You need a spiritual counselor. A lot of Coli posters are atheists, degenerates or both. You’re not going to get sound advice on here. Plus half of these goons are cacs who would like to see you fail. Get it together. Marriage is never easy no one ever said that it was.

Seek to become better friends with your wife. It’s easy to stay once you get past how she looks and the initial lust for her and really like her personality quirks and all. Plus those kids need you. It’s not going to be easy single. It’s not going to be easy if you remarry. God has blessed you with a wife and kids. Don’t you see people on here crying everyday because they don’t have the same thing. You need to get deeper into God at this point and not run away. It’s hilarious that people scoff at getting your souls right when it’s the number one way to then get your mind right.

This

Don't listen to these dudes with this m
nonsense.

My wife and I are God fearing church going people and have been married happily since 2006...I just turned 40. God has been the center of our union and central to its success. My brother and law got married a week before we did in 2006...and he's an assistant pastor over a small church. obviously I don't live with them but they seem happy.

I would advise basically what bruh above me said..rekindle your relationship with God, get spiritual counseling, rekindle your friendship with your wife...and I would add regular counseling too.

Prayers to you.

 

[mag357]

Im 39 single no kids no wife and grass aint green our here.If your wife respects you,your kids adore you stay .Marriage isnt suppose to be fun everyday.

I don't like this.... Life isn't fun everyday, but a marriage can make your days fukkin miserable.
Just because the other person is miserable.
Atleast by yourself, you have more control over how you days go

 

[Gloxina]

I go back and fourth on this. The more research I do, it’s crazy the lengths they went through to hide things. Like the calendar we currently go by… it’s supposed to be 13 months/28 days. With the first of April being the new year, birth of The Christ and ironically April fools day

And if you pay attention to nature, it’s really common sense. Why would the new year start when things are dead/cold? The new year starts in spring when things are awakening/alive. The first day of spring/Spring Equinox…Whatever you wanna call it, that’s the new year.

 

[Dave24]

Reality. Listen. Nothing came from nothing...if you wanna consider whatever that created the cosmos and galaxies a god then cool. But that creator does not have an personality and does not judge. If you look closely at God in scripture he is literally a govt entity. That doesn't exist, except only with humanity. Thus the govt is God.

Again research how religion has caused psychological damage to the psyche of black folks. It's been studied enough. I wish all black folks get off of the imaginary bullshyt and focus on reality....you see how much religion has destroyed black women psychologically. That's all these single mothers talk about. You know why???? Because they are mentally ill. I can explain it further if need be. Also every black American has a jesus freak in their family and it's always an elder black woman...you know why???? I can explain later. Thus they push this imaginary bullshyt on to the children and it psychologically damages us. Poison The well..destroy the town.

@MMS

@Rhakim

@Uitomy

@Mowgli

@invalid

 

[Dave24]

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most marriages fail for a reason. staying with one person forever is not a recipe for happiness. we’re social creatures, part of which including a desire to meet new people and form bond with them, including sexual partners.

@I Really Mean It do you think you will be married and have a family one day?

 

[Professor Emeritus]

most marriages fail for a reason.

Divorce rate is around 35%, so why are people still constantly pushing this "most marriages fail" narrative?

staying with one person forever is not a recipe for happiness.

Yet married people appear to happier than non-married people. I don't think "marriage is a recipe for happiness", it's not a magic solution, but it certainly doesn't oppose happiness like you claim.

we’re social creatures, part of which including a desire to meet new people and form bond with them, including sexual partners.

You somehow manage to form bonds with the men you meet without having sex with them. And I assume there are women you meet and bond with without having sex with them. So what is so difficult about just applying the principles you learn from those relationships to the other women and calling it a day?

I've seen little evidence that casual sexual relationships with multiple partners are conducive to bonding in a positive way.