Made that OKCupid 2 weeks ago and been eating off it since.
I rarely send a message first, I put up 3 good pics and answer the survey questions in a "telling the truth but not so serious" kind of way. Women on there value that "match/enemy" dichotomy and others just see an attractive guy and go on to hit him up. This white hipster stoner chick hit me up wanting to smoke. She was extra lowkey on her page, with one pic and no detailed profile. She didn't like the idea of someone she knows seeing her which i can relate to. she sent pics to my phone...i google image reverse search and nothing came up so we kicked it the next day...she was much badder in person
so the expectation of blowing tree and seeing where it goes/maybe getting some head,turned into fukking her a couple times about 3 hrs later.
She wanted to wait to have sex, feel me out and get to know me more.. she was one of those ex hoes looking for a good guy and take her time, but she couldn't say no to me
She's a whore and batshyt crazy but thats what I like in a one nighter/fukk buddy. If you're a black man, live in the Cali, have a unique look and know how to show your personality in text form...you'll be eating off these sophisticated but not stuck up women too i guarantee it. There's a real minimal amount of black women on there but virtually everything else is on there, if you live in a diverse area.
POF is bottom of the barrel and trash.