We no longer live in a society, where a man's pay alone can pay for a roof over your head and food on your plate. Both partners need to work to have a fighting chance to succeed in life. What works when your dating will be different from what works when your married and married with kids.
How much should the man pay?
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It is difficult if not impossible to own or rent a decent home, pay associated bills, car notes and maintenances, other miscellaneous bills and make it off one income unless you are making six figures. Most homes are designed for TWO INCOMES. Supposed if unplanned shyt arises like car repairs, health issues, dental issues, home repairs, etc....what you gonna do? Some people just have a warped sense of reality. If a woman wants a man to pay for everything, she needs to find one that is in the military or is making 6 figures. Oh, and lots of women want a man to entertain her and take her out...how he gonna do all that and struggling to pay for everything. And lets not talk about if the couple have any habits like shopping, drinking, smoking, gambling, traveling, eating out, etc....how can they fund all that off one income. Hell u got couples who are struggling off 2 incomes and some even got part time jobs and cant do everything they want to do as far as entertainment and other shyt.They agree with it because they can't afford not to lol. Tell the truth
Your post is an obvious reflection of this fact to be honest. You have a marked dislike for feminism, yet you are suddenly okay with being equal to women when it comes to helping you take care of your bills
You want it 50/50 because you can't take care of the bills yourself, not because you want to see your woman as your equal. Or because you see it as an obligation to take on 50% of her traditional role the same way you see it as an obligation that she is take on 50% of yours.
Actually6Foot3
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50/50
This isn't the 1950s. Household duties are not as difficult to complete we got dishwashers, washing machines , those Rumba floor sleeping robots, etc. so I'm busting my ass everyday working and paying all the bills and this chic pocketing her money and barely doing anything in my house ?
fukk I look like?
This isn't the 1950s. Household duties are not as difficult to complete we got dishwashers, washing machines , those Rumba floor sleeping robots, etc. so I'm busting my ass everyday working and paying all the bills and this chic pocketing her money and barely doing anything in my house ?
fukk I look like?
50/50
This isn't the 1950s. Household duties are not as difficult to complete we got dishwashers, washing machines , those Rumba floor sleeping robots, etc. so I'm busting my ass everyday working and paying all the bills and this chic pocketing her money and barely doing anything in my house ?
Why would you be with this type of woman to begin with? You wouldn't want your seed to come from a do nothing woman.
Actually6Foot3
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I never would be but there are women out there looking for a what they call a "real man" to "step up" and simp for em. Those days are long gone.
If not married: The man should pay all the rent and only have his name on the lease.
He should also not marry the live in girlfriend. If she brings it up over time, just tell her he can't afford to save for a ring since he's paying all of the rent.
He should also not marry the live in girlfriend. If she brings it up over time, just tell her he can't afford to save for a ring since he's paying all of the rent.
The reality is most men are paying for everything and not getting anything in return.
And women need to stop using the lie that women of the past did not work. most poor families had 2 income the mans might have been more but it was 2 incomes.
And women need to stop using the lie that women of the past did not work. most poor families had 2 income the mans might have been more but it was 2 incomes.
There are also woman who are there to hold it down for their man and not looking for a free ride either.
Insun Park
Fukk Em
You look even funnier in the light treating a woman like she's your daughter
Handing out allowances ass nikka
The fact that handing out cash to a woman even crossed your mind is proof that you think like a sucker.
If his name is on the lease then i'm not paying a dime towards rent.
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This question is impossible to answer without more detail. Who makes more? How many kids? Married? etc.
You don't know shyt about me, stop with the projections you pseudo feminist. Nobody gives a damn about your made up thoughts and false realitiesThey agree with it because they can't afford not to lol. Tell the truth
Your post is an obvious reflection of this fact to be honest. You have a marked dislike for feminism, yet you are suddenly okay with being equal to women when it comes to helping you take care of your bills
You want it 50/50 because you can't take care of the bills yourself, not because you want to see your woman as your equal. Or because you see it as your obligation to take on 50% of her traditional role the same way you see it as her obligation to take on 50% of yours.
Its easy to push the 'its 2017, men and women have to work as a team, 50/50' narrative but these are the same bozos talking #GMB in other threads. This is how I know Yall are just a bunch of followers. You don't want to get married but you want to share household responsiblities with women? What's the difference? 
What happens when she decides to leave you? You wanna be forced to move out?
What happens when you see your lady sucking cock on shesfreaky and you decide to leave her? You wanna be forced to move out?
So you're willing to gamble your entire ( or specifically at least half of your ) lifestyle on the loyalty of a woman? The same women Yall preach all day about how they aren't loyal?
Yall can have that. I'm keeping my name as the sole name on the lease, im budgetting on my own and im paying for everything on my own. So if its ever time for you to go, just pack your bags.
What happens when she decides to leave you? You wanna be forced to move out?
What happens when you see your lady sucking cock on shesfreaky and you decide to leave her? You wanna be forced to move out?
So you're willing to gamble your entire ( or specifically at least half of your ) lifestyle on the loyalty of a woman? The same women Yall preach all day about how they aren't loyal?
Yall can have that. I'm keeping my name as the sole name on the lease, im budgetting on my own and im paying for everything on my own. So if its ever time for you to go, just pack your bags.