How much should the man pay?

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

im not even going to ask why you think the man is arbitrary stopped to pay double what you pay.

Marriage entitles them to half, Eddie.
Half.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Prostitute huh?


Can I at least be a personal assistant/homemaker/cook/maid/wife
/prostitute?

I like all my roles to be acknowledged.

Wife isn't prostitute.
Child's mother isn't prostitute.
You drop some baybehs and put a ring on, then we honorable.
Otherwise we are whoring and playing house.

 

[1thouwow]

Just for s&g can I get an age / relationship status for the posters in this thread?

I'm 26 and I'm single with no dependents.
I never lived with my significant other.
I live like a bachelor though, I live alone and pay my mortgage by myself. I clean up the crib regularly, I cook at least 2-3 times a week. I pay all my bills for the crib by myself. So when a chick say she gonna pay for everything else I'm like. I don't believe in a housewife, unless on maternal leave. Bc it's guaranteed I cook better than the chick anyway. Now what I will do is if I pay for majority of everything (like I do now), I would want a significant amount of her money to invest else where (real estate). I'm not about to pay all the bills, and then just have her whole checks be her disposable income

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

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People worrying about whose going to pay what but if the rent ain't paid yall both living in the street

Also I would assume if both of our names is on the lease then we'll both handle it responsibly. It sounds like the people afraid to pay more than the other don't feel secure in their relationship. Functioning couples assess their financial situation before moving in. You should only move in if you're serious and if it's serious business will be taken care of.

Whoever got the money at the time pays.
If we married, you're staying at home with my child and I will pay. For reasons.

 

[BocaRear]

Your parents raised you to be a bytch.

being the patriach and providing for your family is being a bytch now huh, so many emasculated nikkas around. sad.

 

[5010]

50/50.

I'm not taking care of a grown ass woman unless she's my mother or grandma. If you can't go half on this mortgage and utilities, get your own place.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Ill pay rent...

She can handle the rest..

 

[Yesterday]

being the patriach and providing for your family is being a bytch now huh, so many emasculated nikkas around. sad.

I would think being your wife's bytch is pretty emasculating itself.

 

[levitate]

He should pay all of the rent. I would pay the "everything else".




Your gf/wife isn't your roomate, y'all are a team.

Half and half is for roommates.

Ewwww...why should the man have to pay more than his fair share?

It's 50/50 or split proportionally based on income.

What kind of message would I be sending to my daughter if I paid more than my fair share while my wife paid less than hers?
That she can expect some man to take care of most of her needs? What about personal responsibility and independence, even within a relationship?

Ewwwww...

Girl, bye!

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

This doesn't make sense to me. Wife and I have shared bank accounts but I pay ALL the bills simply because I'm better at handling money/budgeting.

None of this 50/50 bullshyt. Whatever is in the accounts is used to pay bills.

You cats 'shacking-up' instead of getting hitched have to worry about all this nonsense and drama.​

 

[levitate]

These are the facts:

• 87% of the women in here saying that the man should pay more than his fair share are not in successful, financially stable relationships.
• Ewwwww...

 

[BocaRear]

I would think being your wife's bytch is pretty emasculating itself.

You're an idiot
Money is power, whoever pays the bills and handles the finances is the master
Your boss is your boss because he pays your salary, in a similar way, the father is the patriach and the boss because he pays the bills and handles shyt.

 

[Remote]

Boy that feminism and equality left this thread with the quickness.

 

[Yesterday]

You're an idiot
Money is power, whoever pays the bills and handles the finances is the master

And what does that make him when "master" is abandoned with nothing to show for it? All these men who were the "master" of his household being left alone with while his GF bails with a full bank account. Or these "masters" who have had the "power" in their house but still can't even get his wife to bust his nut yet he's less of a man if he doesn't financially submit. Is he still the master when he's taken for half his assets, wealth and support?

Men have been made to believe their manliness relies on their ability to be taken advantage of. Think about that for a second and relate it to the things you take pride in.

 

[Won Won]

This doesn't make sense to me. Wife and I have shared bank accounts but I pay ALL the bills simply because I'm better at handling money/budgeting.

None of this 50/50 bullshyt. Whatever is in the accounts is used to pay bills.

You cats 'shacking-up' instead of getting hitched have to worry about all this nonsense and drama.​

Shared bank accounts is a whole other thread

Money is power, whoever pays the bills and handles the finances is the master

We still talking relationships?