How much should the man pay?

Diyhai

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Most American women are stupid and don't think like you.

They have some fantasy of some guy paying for every thing while they sit on their funky butts all day.

It's 2017 not 1947. Everybody works so you should split everything. Chores also.
A woman can want whatever she wants
Just cuz u can't afford doesn't mean the next dude with bread wouldn't be cool with it
 

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Ask people that are single for a reason what should be split between a couple brehs
 
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Most American women are stupid and don't think like you.

They have some fantasy of some guy paying for every thing while they sit on their funky butts all day.

It's 2017 not 1947. Everybody works so you should split everything. Chores also.
I remember when the meme in the op showed up on my timeline and a single chick with two kids legit said a man should pay all the bills because it's "traditional." When I called her out for having two kids out of wedlock and all of the sudden wanting a "traditional" man to hold down the house (basically implying that ship has sailed for her) WWIII erupted on that stat. Of course if you want a traditional wife role of the stay at home mom to raise you and your husband's kids that fine and dandy but when you're bringing another man's child to the table you're fukking nuts to demand a man foot all the bills.
 

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I remember when the meme in the op showed up on my timeline and a single chick with two kids legit said a man should pay all the bills because it's "traditional." When I called her out for having two kids out of wedlock and all of the sudden wanting a "traditional" man to hold down the house (basically implying that ship has sailed for her) WWIII erupted on that stat. Of course if you want a traditional wife role of the stay at home mom to raise you and your husband's kids that fine and dandy but when you're bringing another man's child to the table you're fukking nuts to demand a man foot all the bills.
The problem is the simps that are boosting their heads up on social media. A good portion are all talk, but fill their heads with that bs of paying all the bills. Some simps do have money and do it.

If I'm not doing that for a chick without kids why the fukk would I do it for one with kids. Her post just tells me that she isn't truly interested in the man, but just his money. The god damn nerve of some of these broads.
 

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Well see here's the deal. I ended up benefiting more from the arrangement than my ex so it wasn't exactly 50/50.

He was a leasing agent so he brought an almost $300 discount to my rent. But then we split an already ridiculously cheap rent on TOP of that. He paid the cable/phone/internet bundle and I paid the light bill. So b/c I was essentially swimming in money, the least I could do is take care of the house and I'm a neat freak anyway so that was a given. But he had to pay child support, his car note, his other bills and was still doing little shyt for me like taking me out and buying me small shyt here and there.

I'm not heartless so I took care of food and stuff. He had some shytty ways but he always provided for me. Hell he even got me a sweet part time job chilling st the pool everyday last summer so I had even MO money! I felt so guilty about it that I gave him like $300 one time cash and bought him video games occasionally b/c I save so much money living with him that I was able to pay off my carnote and STILL had like close to $5000 left in the bank.

If u looking out for me like that then the very least I can do to NOT be a piece of utter shyt is keep a clean crib and make sure u got food when u get home. Like seriously.

Your arrangement still seems very fair though. You both saved money. I'm talking about the women that just want to watch soaps all day and don't want to pay nothing. Or have a job and don't want to pay shyt.
 
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