How much should the man pay?
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PartyHeart
All Star
Thats because this is not the only thread that exists on the coli. Here it is routinely discussed by men that they want to be leaders, have women submit, and generally have no desire to be equal in any way to women. I have no idea what the point would be in suddenly pretending that isn't a common thought pattern for males on here in order to address a thread about both man and woman equally contributing to household finances.
The fact that she's back home with her mother and is fukking other dudes should mean nothing to you at his point.I'm embarrassed to admit this, but it'll serve as a lesson to you young and dumb fellas that's "in love" with a dimepiece or pretty chick...
I once paid ALL the bills. She only had to pay her insurance and car note. Guess where she's at now?...
Back living at home with her mother, on Facebook, getting slayed by other nikkas.
NEVER cohabitate or try to save a female based off her looks or sex. You taking care of her means absolutely NOTHING.
You still having your house (instead of being forced to downgrade after the relationship went left) should mean a lot more.
You paid for everything but you did it for the wrong reasons. You thought u could take care of a woman because shes pretty. Your intentions was fukked up. When your intentions become to own a woman, you'll always be disappointed.
Nigerianwonder
Superstar
Seems like a simple concept but these guys are clearly beta males who let their woman walk all over them. How can you even call yourself a MAN if you have no control over your household and your WIFE? What kinda losers are yall?
There is really no point in getting married if your going to continue to live separate lives like roomates. I didn't realize people really did this. No wonder folks get divorced and cheated on so easy.. they were never really TOGETHER to begin with... If your woman is still talking "I" and "me" instead of "us" and "We" after marriage you lost. I control ALL the finances from one account and run the household like a MAN should.
Oh I feel u. I agree if both the man and woman paying 50%...then the chores should be handled by both parties. Maybe have man do all outside work and help with dishes and cooking and women can handle more inside duties and maybe less strength related duties like planting flowers and shyt....but that should be determined and agreed upon both parties. But I do agree that some of these men have warped views that if they pay 50%, if not less or if not nothing at all and they just sit at home and be worthless financially, then they shouldn't expect a woman to cook, clean and submit 100%. I just feel the dynamic of a relationship is better if both parties contribute and both on the same page.
Where do ya'll get this stuff from?
Me and my wife put all of our money into a joint account and go from there (including having our own separate spending money put in our own accounts). And that works out just fine for us. No talk of being roommates or any of that nonsense.
The best way for a household to survive is for both to contribute where they best can, irrespective to who/what you are. Not to obligate a man to pay the lion's share just to earn his title as head. That's how contempt is built.
J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
This is deep. I wish you would told me this years ago nikka.
Read young brehs and listen.
Oceanicpuppy
Superstar
Many Non western women are traditional and believe in male bread winners. LolGet a non-western woman and you dont have to worry bout this bullshyt
What if both y'all name on the lease?
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
Glady cause I was doing 100% of it before she showed up anyway. what do you think men do before y'all show up? Sit there looking at a pile laundry confused?? It's not difficult.
Action Mike
All praise..
Crazy thing is if breh is paying all that mortgage money....why is her name on the house then
But but but we're a team
But but but we're building, pay for the building while I buy food
But but but we're a team
But but but we're building, pay for the building while I buy food
Action Mike
All praise..
They agree with it because they can't afford not to lol. Tell the truth
Your post is an obvious reflection of this fact to be honest. You have a marked dislike for feminism, yet you are suddenly okay with being equal to women when it comes to helping you take care of your bills
You want it 50/50 because you can't take care of the bills yourself, not because you want to see your woman as your equal. Or because you see it as your obligation to take on 50% of her traditional role the same way you see it as her obligation to take on 50% of yours.
brehs in here including myself, live good by ourselves and pay bills with other responsibilities etc.
why would anyone get a bigger place to accommodate a girlfriend and have a bigger drain financially... While she buys foodYou didn't reply to my post
You didn't reply to my post
Which one?
levitate
I love you, you know.
Dudes in here judging their manliness by how little their wives/gfs pay for bills.
"Yeah, I'm a fukking manly ass man because I fukking pay for all of the fukking bills in MY fukking house! I control every fukking thing in my house because I'm a fukking MAN!"
Huh?
These guys must have had weak, submissive women as mothers.
"Yeah, I'm a fukking manly ass man because I fukking pay for all of the fukking bills in MY fukking house! I control every fukking thing in my house because I'm a fukking MAN!"
Huh?
These guys must have had weak, submissive women as mothers.