I do, and that has worked out for me, IMO. Don't get me wrong, there are one or 2 guilty pleasures that people have that are not good for them, but over indulging in this filth is just bullshyt.
How many of you have stopped taking women out on Dates?
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I do, and that has worked out for me, IMO. Don't get me wrong, there are one or 2 guilty pleasures that people have that are not good for them, but over indulging in this filth is just bullshyt.
Klyk21
Hate is Rising, Love is Dying....
It's one thing to smash different broads but its a complete other to smash QUALITY bytches. Considering op lives in atlantic station in a condo, he MAY be telling the truth. A lot of dudes in atl (other places too but especially here) use their possessions to get women. All he has to do is tell her what he does for a living and the chick is swooning. Black men can do a lot with 50k...white dudes gotta be rich as fukk to get the same
DemureNatural
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That means the women have a very low bar because I've met men with great careers who are complete a$$holes and think they are god's gift simply bc they do have jobs and don't live at home w/ their mother...is that all that's necessary for a man to be quality? What about chemistry? Shared values?
I actually met a man who asked me what I did for a living and after I'd told him, he told me to google his brother...what a lame.[DOUBLEPOST=1397690043][/DOUBLEPOST]
Hey, to each his own. I wouldn't want a man who was into reality TV
absolutely no exclusivity involved at that point...most im doin is gettin some drinks and tippin the bouncer if that even cause 9 times out of 10 i dont have to pay to get in
yea i gotta stick with barely ever posting in this forum my lifestyle doesnt coincide with the thought processes in here
yea i gotta stick with barely ever posting in this forum my lifestyle doesnt coincide with the thought processes in here
Yeah, but you should start looking into places outside the club and bars for men. Or try to stay outta them as much as you can.
DemureNatural
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I never said I look for men at all, let alone in clubs. I appreciate the advice though; someone could use it
philmonroe
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This just sounds like some elitist shyt but whatever works for you man.
Lets keep it real a dude esp if he's making over a certain amount is a gift to alot of women because that's what they are looking for. All that other stuff is discrediting IMO. Of course that other stuff matters but just like some good looking woman that is told over and over how good she looks goes to her head same thing with guys. I'm also a believer most people don't really have much deal breaking shared values when close to the same level. We all have disagreements here and there but most people we can get along even in a relationship just fine if they want to.
If a man watches reality tv whats wrong with it? I also just thought you said that don't mean nothing about what they do outside of that. Seems like a contradiction and you on the same elitist shyt dude on too? Y'all can have it must work for y'all apparently
DemureNatural
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A dude making a certain amount might be a gift to some but let's be real, in this day and age, more women are employed than men, especially if we're talking about in the black community...so there's a HUGE change women are the breadwinners, but if we're talking about a combined household that shouldn't matter anyway bc the money benefits us mutually. A woman making a lot of money doesn't necessarily need a man making as much as she does but she more than likely doesn't want someone who won't work...who's lazy and allows himself to be a sponge (I know too many women who are w/ men (not even husbands) who don't financially contribute at all, granted it's the woman's bad for allowing that to happen). Again, I think it goes back to maturity...the things you listed, guys making lots of money and women allowing compliments to go to her head, are all ego issues...and one thing I know to be true is that as people grow, looks matter less and less when one is looking for quality...
I'm not contradicting myself. If you go back through my last few posts, you'll see that I believe mature people can separate entertainment from life, however, I know men who watch the Real Housewives series and gossip about it like women...that's not attractive to me, so to each his/her own.
Dont een worry about it bruh bruh.............oh youre a female. lol[DOUBLEPOST=1397693169][/DOUBLEPOST]
Where did you meet the last guy that you dated?
DemureNatural
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On a cruise
These "Quality Women" will fukk Will Smith in the back of his Rolls Royce if given the chance.You give these women too much credit.
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ilovejesus
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Starbucks is another good place.
To have a good date you need to know how to talk.
It does matter if you take girl to the most expensive and exciting place in the world, if you guys don't spend anytime having any good conversation
the date is going to fall flat.
Whether you like it or not, conversation is the beginning and end of any good date.
And conversation is FREE.
To have a good date you need to know how to talk.
It does matter if you take girl to the most expensive and exciting place in the world, if you guys don't spend anytime having any good conversation
the date is going to fall flat.
Whether you like it or not, conversation is the beginning and end of any good date.
And conversation is FREE.
Game can come from anywhere. As long as it works thats all that matters. BTW That "hood book" doesnt say anything about not taking women out on dates.
Not to shyt on you, but cruises are places where people in married/ committed relationships fukk like jack rabbits with other people.
You are apart of that 70% friendI swear 70% of the people who post here suffer from Aspergers
