How many of you have stopped taking women out on Dates?

[b@squ1@t]

But how do you get to "know" them? I don't see the path from meeting her to getting to know her well enough to say she is your girlfriend.

look man honestly my whole life ive never been into relationships...i was always way more into just smashin and movin on...i got friends that stay in relationships and im the opposite...and once i discovered how easy it is to get what i want even from quality attractive women w/o adhering to "dating" i ran with it...like i said there's plenty of other ways to get to know a woman w/o dinner and a movie off top and when you do those things and find out that she is genuinely into you then i see nothing wrong with a legitimate date

 

[DemureNatural]

Not to hate on you, but they know they have nothing better to offer. If you are a nerdy black chick that is very upfront, you will have a better time with men, if you keep your emotions in check

That's a possibility...

I noticed that you keep mentioning the 'nerdy black chick'--is that how you classify a quality woman?[DOUBLEPOST=1397685789][/DOUBLEPOST]

Its on the man to demand more of the dumb bytch. keep you mfin panties on bytch aint nobody tryin to fukk you right now . We too stupid/too sex craved that we see thirst and let the bytch drink. If I see thirst ima make sure the bytch dehydrates until she get her mind right.

Goodness, I wish I could understand anything you've written. Maybe someone can decipher that for me.

 

[The ADD]

look man honestly my whole life ive never been into relationships...i was always way more into just smashin and movin on...i got friends that stay in relationships and im the opposite...and once i discovered how easy it is to get what i want even from quality attractive women w/o adhering to "dating" i ran with it...like i said there's plenty of other ways to get to know a woman w/o dinner and a movie off top and when you do those things and find out that she is genuinely into you then i see nothing wrong with a legitimate date

Don't answer questions brehs

 

[b@squ1@t]

Don't answer questions brehs

lol what do you want here?...im not about to run down a list of ways to find out if a woman is actually into you w/o takin her on some antiquated version of a "date"

 

[Wild self]

That's a possibility...

I noticed that you keep mentioning the 'nerdy black chick'--is that how you classify a quality woman?[DOUBLEPOST=1397685789][/DOUBLEPOST]

Goodness, I wish I could understand anything you've written. Maybe someone can decipher that for me.

A nerdy black chick is a gem in this era. Especially the ones that don't do that Love and Hip Hop ratchet shyt and not be on Instagram all damn day.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

idk if your referring to me but like i said the main issue is the date being a test to see if there's a connection...theres plenty of other ways to find that out without blowing some dough on a lost cause...

and if consider taking a girl to a club and buyin her a drink or two a date then i guess so.. i never did consider it that..but if so then yea i date lol..to me a date is the restaurant thing pickin her up at 8 walkin her back to her door that whole thing...thats what im not into unless theres already a certified bond

That is a cheap date but a date none the less.

 

[b@squ1@t]

hangin out = date?...i gaurantee those women wouldnt ve called it a date either...there was no askin out-- just sayin come thru and kick it and im goin to the club later if you wanna roll with me...na i dont see it

 

[UserNameless]

Why didn't YOU dap it?

Usage of the b-word in reference to a female.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

hangin out = date?...i gaurantee those women wouldnt ve called it a date either...there was no askin out-- just sayin come thru and kick it and im goin to the club later if you wanna roll with me...na i dont see it

If you asked her to meet you, pay her way and hanging out with her exclusively/semi-exclusively then yes it is a date. It doesn't have to be fancy to be a date.

 

[DemureNatural]

A nerdy black chick is a gem in this era. Especially the ones that don't do that Love and Hip Hop ratchet shyt and not be on Instagram all damn day.

So you're judging these women on her choices of entertainment? Or are you saying you don't want a woman to live her life like the women you see on reality TV? This is the ratchet era and for a long time now the lowest bar has been the most acceptable...just think about when you were in school...being stupid was more popular that being an academic (the nerd)...but now, you want a nerd. Now you want a quality woman but in your spare time you worship the instagram model...it's a strange situation. We have to do better over all...but like another poster said, your judgement should be on a case by case basis.

 

[Mordith]

I swear 70% of the people who post here suffer from Aspergers

 

[Wild self]

So you're judging these women on her choices of entertainment? Or are you saying you don't want a woman to live her life like the women you see on reality TV? This is the ratchet era and for a long time now the lowest bar has been the most acceptable...just think about when you were in school...being stupid was more popular that being an academic (the nerd)...but now, you want a nerd. Now you want a quality woman but in your spare time you worship the instagram model...it's a strange situation. We have to do better over all...but like another poster said, your judgement should be on a case by case basis.

We men know how to separate the hoes from the quality women. Yes, a person can judge a person by their content of their character and their actions to themselves and to other people. This era is the era where the nasty ass ratchet hoe can make porn tapes and still have men gassing her up. Too many women trying to be their favorite person on L&HH so bad that they copy and mimic their behavior.

 

[Klyk21]

...fukk a bytch that's a doctor or lawyer target cashiers are where the real quality women are

No holds barred tonight i see...jeez yall letting those emotions out

 

[DemureNatural]

We men know how to separate the hoes from the quality women. Yes, a person can judge a person by their content of their character and their actions to themselves and to other people. This era is the era where the nasty ass ratchet hoe can make porn tapes and still have men gassing her up. Too many women trying to be their favorite person on L&HH so bad that they copy and mimic their behavior.

Of course you should judge a person by the content of their character, but that's not what I asked you though...You said you judge women based on the TV shows they watch...most adults, mentally mature people can watch anything and it's not a reflection on how they live their personal lives. I'm speaking generally. As for myself, reality TV was one of the reasons I canceled my cable. It's trash...but I don't judge others who watch.

 

[Taadow]

If you asked her to meet you, pay her way and hanging out with her exclusively/semi-exclusively then yes it is a date. It doesn't have to be fancy to be a date.

I didn't read this thread (and I won't)...but i'm gonna go out on a limb and guess that this is the realest thing that was said in here...

...and it's only 80% real, because you don't have to pay her way for it to be a date.