How many of you have stopped taking women out on Dates?

[NormanConnors]

y'all can take breaks from trolling thecoli, and watching porn all day, in order to google points of interest in your city for cheap or inexpensive dates ya know.

Y'all whine endlessly about not meeting quality women, but then there's endless threads like this where nikkas openly brag about being cheapskates and lowlifes, and wasting energy trying to bang equally desperate, unattractive women y'all meet at the club.

The 22 year oldsare the easiest to get to the crib. They are used to dealing with dudes with no money who invite them to the crib to watch netflix and drink cheap ass Burnett's Vodka. The ran thru 28 yr olds be the ones that wanna go out on dates because they are lookin for a captain save a ho.[DOUBLEPOST=1397539475][/DOUBLEPOST]

I meet quality women all the time but have no desire to settle down right now. I just want to smash and therefore I shouldn't be wasting money on dates with jumpoffs. I dont deal with unattractive women playboy. Atlanta is filled with fine ass women and I'm like a kid in a candy store chea!

both of you dudes are right

 

[DemureNatural]

ur number must get deleted all the time

I don't give my number out often...but I already admitted that the dude with the intention of just having sex will delete my number and yes, I'm fine with that.

 

[Jahmal]

Granted i'm sure your mouthpiece is more experienced, hence your ability to get tons of numbers. Also, you're in Atlanta which is essentially the thirsty black woman capital of the country right now.

So your advice may not work in other cities, i.e. Kansas City

Never been to Kansas City but I grew up in Upstate New York would would have chicks come to the crib on the regular and cook on the first date.[DOUBLEPOST=1397590748][/DOUBLEPOST]

There is a reason I don't even comment on these threads. nikkas try to generalize everything. If you a good looking nikka (no homo) with charisma of course smashing hoes without spending is easy, but that's like maybe 10℅ of nikkas. Ya average nikka has to put more work BC they are not woking with as much. Jahmal logic is not reasonable for ya average nikka.

You arent in the 10%

 

[DemureNatural]

Do this and see what type of women you come up with.

I hope you're not looking to marry any of them. Because if a woman has that low of expectations, she don't seem to be marriage material.

Likewise, a man making an immature comment like that is IMO, a low quality man. Why? Because if there's chemistry and mutual respect, attraction, and admiration, sex will happen regardless of the time. To me, it sounds like these men want prostitutes...the woman being the prostitute giving up the booty and the man paying for it, via dinner or drinks...that's not grown to me. And I'll be damned if I'm pressured to give up my body to keep a man around.[DOUBLEPOST=1397590950][/DOUBLEPOST]

Its natural for men and women to fukk.

If you trying to deny that because you don't want to be labeled as a hoe or listen to these faux dating tips, then it is a problem. I know that you ain't a virgin and I know that the dude(s) that fukked you once was the dude(s) that got ya number.

I would never get labeled a hoe, bc I'm not...

I set the standard for who I sleep with...a man threatening to delete my number bc I haven't put out, SHOULD delete my number bc 9/10 he ain't worthy. All my post was really saying was that just like the women decide to give it up on the first, second, or even 3rd month, I decide to get to know a guy and decide whether or not he's worthy of giving up my mind, emotions, and body to.
The purpose of this thread was saying that men don't take women out bc of the expense of dating many women who you may or may not even end up liking (or in the coli case, having sex with)...that's understandable...as a woman I wouldn't give it up to a man I just gave my number to him. I take my time...a grown man understands this.[DOUBLEPOST=1397591069][/DOUBLEPOST]

Some people just like dating though.

A lot of anti-social folks don't fukk with it, but a date can be a lot of fun, getting p*ssy or not,

Not saying you drop a G on her for dinner, but the experience of a date is always nice to me.[DOUBLEPOST=1397581051][/DOUBLEPOST]

It correlates to a woman who is fine with the fukk on the couch, and you aint the first one fukking her on the couch that month.

To me, I respect a woman who actually respects herself enough to want at least a formal date before you get the p*ssy

These men call women w/ self respect prudes...and they'd delete the number and throw her in the bushes then come on the coli and make threads about all women being hoes...

 

[1thouwow]

Lol I haven't taken a chick on a date in years.

 

[Ain't That Something]

Never been to Kansas City but I grew up in Upstate New York would would have chicks come to the crib on the regular and cook on the first date.[DOUBLEPOST=1397590748][/DOUBLEPOST]
You arent in the 10%

I'm not and I accepted that long time ago player

 

[Wild self]

Likewise, a man making an immature comment like that is IMO, a low quality man. Why? Because if there's chemistry and mutual respect, attraction, and admiration, sex will happen regardless of the time. To me, it sounds like these men want prostitutes...the woman being the prostitute giving up the booty and the man paying for it, via dinner or drinks...that's not grown to me. And I'll be damned if I'm pressured to give up my body to keep a man around.[DOUBLEPOST=1397590950][/DOUBLEPOST]

I would never get labeled a hoe, bc I'm not...

I set the standard for who I sleep with...a man threatening to delete my number bc I haven't put out, SHOULD delete my number bc 9/10 he ain't worthy. All my post was really saying was that just like the women decide to give it up on the first, second, or even 3rd month, I decide to get to know a guy and decide whether or not he's worthy of giving up my mind, emotions, and body to.
The purpose of this thread was saying that men don't take women out bc of the expense of dating many women who you may or may not even end up liking (or in the coli case, having sex with)...that's understandable...as a woman I wouldn't give it up to a man I just gave my number to him. I take my time...a grown man understands this.[DOUBLEPOST=1397591069][/DOUBLEPOST]

These men call women w/ self respect prudes...and they'd delete the number and throw her in the bushes then come on the coli and make threads about all women being hoes...

This ain't the movies. In 2014 America, people are short-tempered and have short attention spans. If men and women are not vocal about what they want out of relationships, then they get the . That "feelings" and speculations shyt ain't gonna cut it anymore.

 

[DemureNatural]

This ain't the movies. In 2014 America, people are short-tempered and have short attention spans. If men and women are not vocal about what they want out of relationships, then they get the . That "feelings" and speculations shyt ain't gonna cut it anymore.

Grown ppl get the intentions conversation out the way up front...there is no speculation...if we don't have shared values, why bother?

 

[King Poetic]

Requirements for taking a woman out on a date

Above Average Looks
Very nice attitude and vibe
She puts forth as much effort and shows as much interest as I

4. She offers to pay
5. she says " we can take my car and i'll drive "

If a woman comes across as entitled or feel I suppose to pursue her and her just chilling. BUSHES

ADDED

 

[Wild self]

Grown ppl get the intentions conversation out the way up front...there is no speculation...if we don't have shared values, why bother?

True

But the sex part to a person that you are mentally compatible with is necessary

 

[DemureNatural]

True

But the sex part to a person that you are mentally compatible with is necessary

I never said sex wasn't an option...that's unrealistic...I'm just saying that it's not guaranteed, nor should it be. Again, I don't see getting to know someone as a financial or sexual transaction

 

[Wild self]

I never said sex wasn't an option...that's unrealistic...I'm just saying that it's not guaranteed, nor should it be. Again, I don't see getting to know someone as a financial or sexual transaction

Seriously, if you meet a guy that you connect to in many ways, why hold back? You still think about the hoe label so much that you deprive yourself.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

I no longer desire to take any women on dates when I first meet them. I meet so many girls in Atlanta that it is dumb as fukk to take most of them on dates because it would drain my pockets. For the last 4 months I haven't taken any chicks on dates. Every chick I meet I invite them over my house. A few weeks ago I went clubbin on a Friday and Saturday and got 28 numbers. Out of those 28 I've had 6 chicks come over and smash on the "first date". The chicks that said they "didnt feel comfortable coming over to a man's house that they just met" got their phone numbers blocked. If I would have taken them out I would have probably spent over $200 on food and drinks and probably only smashed a couple of them. I saved $200+ and still got the p*ssy.

How many of you have stopped taking new chicks out and just game them into coming over your place to watch movies and drink?


The Hard On Hoes Movement grows stronger everyday!

Explain your strategy bruh

 

[DemureNatural]

Seriously, if you meet a guy that you connect to in many ways, why hold back? You still think about the hoe label so much that you deprive yourself.

I've heard that reverse psychology BS from men before..."the only reason women don't give it up is BC they are hoes and they don't want to reveal it, OR they're not hoes and don't want to be labeled one"...guess what, if I'm feeling you and you're feeling me and we're getting to know one another that process takes time...personally there has to be some sort of foundation built and I can't do that in a short period of time. I need to get to know what kind of man I'm dealing with (and in the process he'd be determining whether I'm a woman worth his time)...There's nothing wrong w/ ppl that make a choice to see if they have chemistry physically first, I'm just not one of them.

 

[philmonroe]

Likewise, a man making an immature comment like that is IMO, a low quality man. Why? Because if there's chemistry and mutual respect, attraction, and admiration, sex will happen regardless of the time. To me, it sounds like these men want prostitutes...the woman being the prostitute giving up the booty and the man paying for it, via dinner or drinks...that's not grown to me. And I'll be damned if I'm pressured to give up my body to keep a man around.

Regarding bold do you go around telling chicks that they want Johns or are we throwing that under the guise of "security" since that's what alot of women seem to be looking for.