TheFemalePerspective
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You're 32, but you have the mental age of a horny teenager still going through puberty.
How many of you have stopped taking women out on Dates?
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You're 32, but you have the mental age of a horny teenager still going through puberty.
The club is a place where thirsty men congregate to get more p*ssy. If you rocking a tight dress with a big ol ass, guess what? They dude will approach you and do all kinds of shyt to take you home to fukk you. Plus, the club is also a place where women go to "release" their frustrations in a relationship.
Add 2+2 and what you get?
DemureNatural
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The club is a place where thirsty men congregate to get more p*ssy. If you rocking a tight dress with a big ol ass, guess what? They dude will approach you and do all kinds of shyt to take you home to fukk you. Plus, the club is also a place where women go to "release" their frustrations in a relationship.
Add 2+2 and what you get?
Eh...I suppose it's all about perspective...Assuming your comment in based in your experiences, what can I say. I stay away from the club because of the atmosphere...I don't want to go anywhere I could get shot...I do enjoy happy hour and the grown and sexy parties, which don't IMO qualify as the club...
I agree that men in the club are vultures, for the most part but most people know that Mr/Miss Right isn't in the club or at the bar...
yeah, and the thing is, shyt ain't getting better with time either. Most women rack up mad bodies at the club at some point. Even if it is 2 different dudes per month.
DemureNatural
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That is so sad, I can't imagine what that must be like...but wait weren't you saying that if a woman doesn't give it up, she goes in the bushes? It appears women can't win...if she gives it up, in the bushes...if she doesn't
I think I'll stand by my personal principles
I'll do one date, fukk multiple dates until you get comfortable.
So what is the reward for chasing all these hoes in the club? My nikka said he got 28 numbers in one night. What is the reward? Getting quick/easy p*ssy? I really want to know that answer for all of the dudes saying they got bad bishes coming to the crib all the time fukking with no effort. Enlighten me please.
That is so sad, I can't imagine what that must be like...but wait weren't you saying that if a woman doesn't give it up, she goes in the bushes? It appears women can't win...if she gives it up, in the bushes...if she doesn't
I think I'll stand by my personal principles
Not saying that you have to give it up to every man that you see, but you have to be up front on men that you take serious.
philmonroe
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No I wasn't talking about gold diggers because honestly most dudes don't have gold to dig. I also know a few single relatively young people that have money and I can say I see how they treat "gold diggers" and not worried about their psyche lol. I'm talking in general you said men want escorts and the likes like women don't want johns to pay for their p*ssy under the guise of "security". Some dinner or dates don't necessarily show I can provide or no shyt like that and all I'm saying is lets call everybody out male/female. Also that mature man stuff is bologna that suckers will believe. A mature man my ass they all want the same thing only difference is the sucker will not put it out there being "nice" then be the first dude spazzing when all that "courting" turns into nothing because he was lying to you and himself. Honestly until we've had sex while I can enjoy your company and stuff its not the same until after we had sex and can't make a decision until then.
You can like their personality but without the sex you a friend in my book. Save all that other stuff. Just like if you ask most chicks how many guys you fell for that don't take you out how many bout to raise them hands? Same thing to me both parties have to feel the other is invested and we seem to go about it stereotypically in different ways.
DemureNatural
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To the bolded: I see this as a good thing; friendship is important to me
In my original response, I cited that I believe that dating is a two-way street; I have no problem treating a guy I like...plus I would rather cook that go out to dinner anyway...there's more to dating than dinner and a movie, IMO...I want to do something fun and if I plan a date we'll do something fun. For the first date, I would even mind going dutch
About gold diggers looking for a come up...I can't relate to that personally but I do believe people should contribute in a relationship...and I don't mean via their looks, sex, or money. I do know some people who believe in gender roles and have expectations based on that belief of their significant others...but everyone still plays their part and no one feels used or unappreciated.
philmonroe
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I mean you said you goto are been to the club before right are you a thirsty man? I think the club get somewhat of a bad rap. All that stuff you mentioned is true but alot of people don't really know where else and or are scarred to do it in the non meat market places like at the store, walking , doing regular life shyt. That's why people to there oftentimes IMO.The club is a place where thirsty men congregate to get more p*ssy. If you rocking a tight dress with a big ol ass, guess what? They dude will approach you and do all kinds of shyt to take you home to fukk you. Plus, the club is also a place where women go to "release" their frustrations in a relationship.
Add 2+2 and what you get?
fukk are you talking about getting shot at the club you the war zone of your city? I also think you can find Mr/Mrs Right but I do find it funny that the same people saying this are usually the same people that goto these events themselves so I guess they are saying they ain't shyt. They shouldn't down themselves like that.[DOUBLEPOST=1397599263][/DOUBLEPOST]
Well I can't disagree with anything you said but you don't seem to be the norm for most women out here. Friendship is cool but without that sex man better hope that other girl that's just as nice don't take a good guy away from you while you bullshytting lol
DemureNatural
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I was surprised TBH...there used to be a party that I went to here in Orlando that's not even in the hood...I went every once in a while for a long time bc the DJ was good and the dudes weren't thirsty...i went one Friday and it was closed...come to find out, someone was stabbed...it was surprising to me because this place was a 21+ for women and 25+ for men...Now the only good place to go is the old skool party with the thirsty old dudes, but I don't mind them bc they aren't aggressive.
I wouldn't look for Mr/Miss Right in the club bc I can't even have a meaningful convo or even a light hearted convo in the club bc I can't hear a damn thing over the music! I love to dance anyway so I'm on the dance floor doing my thing, it's just not a good time for me
I'm not offensive, but what you you look like, body wise?
or at least your measurements?
DemureNatural
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I'm not worried[DOUBLEPOST=1397599707][/DOUBLEPOST]
I'm not offensive, but what you you look like, body wise?
or at least your measurements?
Why does that matter LOL? Even if i posted my measurements, your response would be, "Pics or it didn't happen" and I'm not posting my pics...Just know I look good enough to turn a few heads.
