Bruh, y'all nikkas trippin. You gotta take this date shyt on a case by case basis.
For example, there was a chick in high school who had hoeish tendencies but had her head on straight I tried to get at. Was probably a solid 8 borderline 9, but I didn't have the game to bag her back then. Went to college and improved, came back for the summer and hit her up, went on the typical dinner date "I'll pick you up at 9" type shyt...not only did she offer to pay for her shyt, but she was down to throw me the box afterwards too. You gotta judge the level of sophistication a chick has before you give her dinner-date treatment, drinks treatment, or "come thru" treatment.
Another chick I fukked with, this half cac/half spanish chick with big ass titties in my Spanish class, was a hoe n I knew it right off the bat. Didn't offer to take her out or do anything for her. All it took was a few funny conversations in class and a few jokes via text and I was in it, she kept asking when we were gonna chill and I was totally noncommittal...which made her even more thirsty for some reason. Chick ended up driving to my apartment, taking me to her crib, letting me drink her liq, smash, and then drove me back. A nikka didn't even have to use his own gas for this one...it was that easy...all because I used proper judgement off the bat.
It's ignorant to write off dates with every chick...use your judgement nikka....you could be denying yourself from a wifey type chick because you tried her like a hoe. n I'm only 22 though, so I don't know how older women are in their late 20's/early 30's. Trust your instincts....learn how to tell the hoes from wifey material and your efficiency with spending money/getting p*ssy will go through the roof.