Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Isn't this type of thing dependant on the people you meet?
What kind of man wants to get married just because?
What kind of man wants to get married just because?
How many of you have no desire to get Married?
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AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Yes. We call that a common-law marriage.
But why put your kids through the shame of having different last names from their mother? Especially if you're gonna be a family and stay loyal for life anyway?
You're aware this can still happen even IF you're married, correct? Women don't always take their husband's last names.
I give birth to the kid and we're not married? Put a hyphen in that shyt. Actually, regardless the kid is getting a hyphen
You think like a black woman no wonder why we have issues in our communities.
Actually, regardless the kid is getting a hyphen
You feminize boys from birth and you still don't understand why they grow up to become b!tch ass n!ggas
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
And the mama too, breh?Yeah but that's just dumb. That's kind of a by-product of our broken families, chicks doing shyt like that.
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
You can't give me one reason for not getting married that isn't selfish. You don't see how selfishness is bad for a community? Then you call me dense?
You don't see how if our kids have families they won't ever have to be "walking to their dad's house". They'd be walking home. Period. And when there are a lot of families, who know each other and look out for one another, principles learned in family life, that's called a community. And everybody in a strong community knows everybody. So there would be no "who is that in the hoodie?"
Like I said, do you, but you can't deny your decision is not helping humanity, it's actually a detriment. Just as long as you know what you're arguing for.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
You can't give me one reason for not getting married that isn't selfish. You don't see how selfishness is bad for a community? Then you call me dense?
You don't see how if our kids have families they won't ever have to be "walking to their dad's house". They'd be walking home. Period. And when there are a lot of families, who know each other and look out for one another, principles learned in family life, that's called a community. And everybody in a strong community knows everybody. So there would be no "who is that in the hoodie?"
Like I said, do you, but you can't deny your decision is not helping humanity, it's actually a detriment. Just as long as you know what you're arguing for.
What if someone doesn't want kids or marriage?
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I'd like to see an answer for this too.
The weird thing about this thread, marriage is more beneficial for the man. In the professional world, single men aren't taken seriously. After a certain point, People will not promote you to high level positions if they see you always bringing a new chick the office party. It's not a good look, it comes off as immature.
Honestly, wives are super helpful. Sometimes I wish I had a wife and I'm a woman. Husband's are just not as helpful professionally. For a woman, getting married is like taking on a second full time job, with no pay. Women take a hit professionally when they get married. We do most of the domestic work, and many of us work full time, and then there is maternity leave, marriage is terrible for a woman's career.
Honestly, wives are super helpful. Sometimes I wish I had a wife and I'm a woman. Husband's are just not as helpful professionally. For a woman, getting married is like taking on a second full time job, with no pay. Women take a hit professionally when they get married. We do most of the domestic work, and many of us work full time, and then there is maternity leave, marriage is terrible for a woman's career.
I'm not disagreeing at all with what your saying, but the double standard really grinds my gears...A single man who chooses not to fall into the marriage matrix so early is looked down upon when trying to move up in the upper echelons of the professional world, but the gay man is excused from this same scrutiny and quickly promoted
I'm not disagreeing at all with what your saying, but the double standard really grinds my gears...A single man who chooses not to fall into the marriage matrix so early is looked down upon when trying to move up in the upper echelons of the professional world, but the gay man is excused from this same scrutiny and quickly promoted
Not down south they don't
As far as this thread? All I'm gonna say is this: you get out what you put in. That goes for men and women.
A person doesnt have to be married in order to change their last name....
my grandfather is a staunch Italian catholic and when i told him getting married wasn't all that important to me he wasn't happy.
i got some of the reasons why its a great thing and how he put it across but i explained if i can't find that sort of love that i saw from him and my grandmother, i wouldn't settle and he understood.
i've never been a big relationship person..i only really want a girlfriend when i'm feeling sick or hungover but now when you live in another country for a short space of time and everybody thats close to you aren't available when you want to see them the appeal of a relationship and finding love definitely grows bigger.
i got some of the reasons why its a great thing and how he put it across but i explained if i can't find that sort of love that i saw from him and my grandmother, i wouldn't settle and he understood.
i've never been a big relationship person..i only really want a girlfriend when i'm feeling sick or hungover but now when you live in another country for a short space of time and everybody thats close to you aren't available when you want to see them the appeal of a relationship and finding love definitely grows bigger.