How do we help or deal with all the disgruntled young men in the country?
- Thread starter Neuromancer
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So the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Capitalism is the cause I assume.
It must have been easier in the past.
Well let's have them. Why do they still exist?
Redwood
Superstar
With each other? I feel like that's not true but could you elaborate on why you think this?
Most males coming up have never a male talk "aggressive" to them without being a problem afterwards..
Even if it has good intent, ways of communicating must be evolved to deal with the newer generations
richbosszar
Pro
every era of human society came to the conclusion that only when men have more power does society last longer. its not about truly controlling women, its about preventing women from self destruction, single mother hood, having children at 35-40, prostituting themselves for the highest bidder... ever heard of fishers runaway?This seems to be a recurring theme in this thread. So the only way for men to prosper is to control women? I don’t see how any of this gets men a job and a purpose.
Every thread about what men should do turns into what women should do. I see why women are dominating. We truly are running things now.
Do you think the aggression needs to go away or the response?
The initial aggression without a doubt...
Givethanks
Superstar
You can't help these people because they don't want it.
Our culture (male) is destructive tbh.
Our culture (male) is destructive tbh.
In what way? Do you not have male friends?
Peruvian Connect
All Star
It's not about not wanting help. If everything you learned peviously was a lie, what makes you think these new teachings will hold any value? Do it and ssee the results. The end results is the person who told you to do it is satisfied and you are fukked over.
Givethanks
Superstar
Like @Peruvian Connect said a lot of shyt we learned was a lie. My boys who were "Lame" growing up, are excelling in life. Beautiful wives, lovely family, making good money and the whole 9.
We're taught how to get bytches..
My guy friend's who were getting "bytches" got the wrong type of women and ended up with baby mamas or did jail time for domestic violence.
We're taught dont be a p*ssy, never back down..
I knew a guy who got murdered infront of bare people. you'd hear about how his boy's were tough guys' about the gunplay. But when the group who murdered that guy, threatened their families; now their quiet as a mouse and I never hear about any of them.
Just the other day, I gave my guy's man a ride to get some food. He's close to 40 and he hung out the window to tell this lady "damn you sexy as fukk"
Everyone looked at us like
I got second hand embarrassment. Never in my life have I ever heard of that approach working.That's where the mentality of not wanting help comes in, basically they're saying fukk it.
You can't make anyone care about something, it has to come from themselves.
I can only speak for myself, I know I was late but there's a lot of dumb shyt I let go, when i entered my mid 20s. I realized a lot of that shyt was a lie, and now my life's way better.
I've been involved in mentoring with the youth and I try to promote healthy lifestyles. Hoping they don't have to go through dumb shyt I had too you know.
Yeah them he died a real nikka types who don't support the deceased family and trying to fukk his babymomz lol..
Alot of advice needs refinement and/or outdated...