How do we help or deal with all the disgruntled young men in the country?

[Nokids]

Man I drunk as fukk at what burger getting food for 2 bytches but this thread me got me to go out no lie.. I went out met two bad bytches at a bar near me they ended up buying me drinks all night after I bought them two then brought them to the crib and smashed

TLDR: go outside brehs I went out thinking I was going to get two drinks I ending up bring two girls home

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

Man I drunk as fukk at what burger getting food for 2 bytches but this thread me got me to go out no lie.. I went out met two bad bytches at a bar near me they ended up buying me drinks all night after I bought them two then brought them to the crib and smashed

TLDR: go outside brehs I went out thinking I was going to get two drinks I ending up bring two girls home

 

[V Skyye]

30 year mortages
10 car lones
hoes getting 5 credit cards a year
60k student loans
all of this truly empowers women because they spend the most,just facts
remove credit and return to hard money lot of this bullshyt in current society fixes itself, it always comes down to money, money is power, and when women can get cheap and easy credit the go crazy!

This seems to be a recurring theme in this thread. So the only way for men to prosper is to control women? I don’t see how any of this gets men a job and a purpose.

Every thread about what men should do turns into what women should do. I see why women are dominating. We truly are running things now.

 

[Braman]

The perception of Americans is we don’t keep it real, we’re phony, forced optimism and hiding the nasty ugly parts like our shyt don’t stink

Well that’s kinda where we are. Especially with women and gays. If it makes a woman happy, well common sense be damned we’re gonna ride with it. That Moriah mills situation was hilarious for that reason bc for the last few years we gotta sit and pretend porn stars are normal people Then she does bat shyt crazy and we gotta pretend that’s not to be expected

I say all that bc the disgruntledness revolves around the feeling of being muzzled, the feeling of being forced to live in bizarro world where left is right (double entendre ) and up is down. And everywhere you go —-social media, news,etc—-is playing along.

‘Don’t Look Up’ brilliantly satires this. These scientists are trying to tell people that world ia ending but the news anchors wanna keep it light and airy, sarcastic, the American way. For seeing things for what they are, for being truthful, the scientists are disgruntled

 

[Redwood]

Also forgot to mention the constant microaggressions

 

[BlaccSunrise]

I didn't go as far as to say broke dudes are doing better with women than educated, successful men. Overall, having money and a degree will absolutely help with pulling higher quality women. Just saying having money, a degree, a car or your own place isn't a guarantee anymore and it's possible to get passed up during those 18-25 years for dudes with social clout without those things. Not all women but it might be a particular girl you want.

Remember most men aren't incels even today. 2/3rds of men are eating. Most men with degrees get women but there are a minority that do fit the stereotype of the guy that focused on the books 24/7 and put dating on the backburner. Or the foreign transfer student that can't speak English. The chart makes sense because men without degrees will smash damn near everything, many of em don't have anything else to do besides fukk and hang out, and if they got a job they work with other low-tier women who are down to fukk.

Warehouse life

 

[Nokids]

No need to lie fam I live downtown and the bars are right around the corner they kept staring so I walked over with my wine glass and tipped theirs and introduced my self and it went from there

they just left out in an Uber when they put the drinks on their tab I was like

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

At base level men are struggling to secure a comfortable existence. Which then provides for everything else. We live in times where more and more men are being out earned by women. More commonly even outdone in school.

The traditional gender role structure is broken when men can't be providers. Starting with just being able to secure a dwelling space and afford to have a girlfriend to then build an adult life with. Young men don't have access to that family starter pack. shyt cost more. Adult life gets delayed indefinitely. No space of their own, no decent jobs, no girlfriend. Men start to lose a sense of purpose and they become more dangerous.

In my personal view and many people won't like this. I think we actually have to start making less humans worldwide instead of more. Or these problems will become insurmountable. There will be less jobs and less affordable housing going forward for many reasons. Between the advent of AI and the continuous automation. We have to start looking at the future in focus. The idea that everyone should have a family was functional when we were building a workforce and everything depended on man power from industry to protection of society. The harsh reality will eventually take hold in more people that we need less of us going forward in society. Depopulation will be a major movement in our lifetime. I predict this. Especially with climate change ramping up and resource wars being inevitable. And I think it has already began as a function of society being out of balance.. less people are getting married and starting families in all developed nations.

 

[Dave24]

At base level men are struggling to secure a comfortable existence. Which then provides for everything else. We live in times where more and more men are being out earned by women. More commonly even outdone in school.

The traditional gender role structure is broken when men can't be providers. Starting with just being able to secure a dwelling space and afford to have a girlfriend to then build an adult life with. Young men don't have access to that family starter pack. shyt cost more. Adult life gets delayed indefinitely. No space of their own, no decent jobs, no girlfriend. Men start to lose a sense of purpose and they become more dangerous.

In my personal view and many people won't like this. I think we actually have to start making less humans worldwide instead of more. Or these problems will become insurmountable. There will be less jobs and less affordable housing going forward for many reasons. Between the advent of AI and the continuous automation. We have to start looking at the future in focus. The idea that everyone should have a family was functional when we were building a workforce and everything depended on man power from industry to protection of society. The harsh reality will eventually take hold in more people that we need less of us going forward in society. Depopulation will be a major movement in our lifetime. I predict this. Especially with climate change ramping up and resource wars being inevitable. And I think it has already began as a function of society being out of balance.. less people are getting married and starting families in all developed nations.

Good points, life is too expensive nowadays. Even if you become an electrician, work in the post office or become an accountant. @Piff Perkins

 

[Neuromancer]

This seems to be a recurring theme in this thread. So the only way for men to prosper is to control women? I don’t see how any of this gets men a job and a purpose.

Every thread about what men should do turns into what women should do. I see why women are dominating. We truly are running things now.

Women shouldn't be in the equation. Men think about women too much. Men need to focus on themselves.

 

[Neuromancer]

No need to lie fam I live downtown and the bars are right around the corner they kept staring so I walked over with my wine glass and tipped theirs and introduced my self and it went from there

they just left out in an Uber when they put the drinks on their tab I was like

My nikka.

 

[Neuromancer]

Does anyone see gender role reversal as a solution? @Piff Perkins @V Skyye @Redwood

Since things have changed should they not just all the way change?

Why or why not?

 

[MisterMajesty]

A lot of the critiques of systems across these forums don't look at addressing problems in practical ways. In that sense they are copouts.

I don't know about saving the world, or dealing with all the young disgruntled men in America.
But, in terms of young Black boys in our circles, we have to show them a wide range of things that the world has to offer.Early in life. Find out what they have natural ability and interest in, and help them to develop that interest. I think a lot of young men feel like they are floating aimlessly. Have to root them in something. Self development gives them a purpose.

FACTS. I only found out about all these things to get people into trades AFTER I got into UX, which I fell into by accident. I basically fell through the cracks. That + my interest in game development has more or less saved my 20s (and really, my life)

 

[DreamyKnights]

Legalize Prostitution = less incels shooting up malls junteeth parties and joing militias,

No! That’s not the way to fix the problem lol

 

[maxamusa]

spend time with them. teach them things. encourage hobbies/sports. a lot of it fueled by lack of identity/insecurity.