How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

[ThrobbingHood]

Yes. The best shape I've ever been in in my life.

I started working out consistently over a year ago and the results have been great.

My problem was I was under the false impression that women will fall into your lap because you're in shape.

And it didn't work that way.

Well you did say you’re facially challenged but you’ve got height working to your advantage.

I’m not saying women ain’t shallow but they’ll take a tall ugly breh over a short good looking one 8/10.

@god shamgod is right. You’ve got to start off approaching 4s and 5s. If you’ve never lifted weights before, you can’t jump on bench pressing 200lbs. You’ve got to start on the small dumbbells first and work your way up.

Once you’re comfortable with average looking women, that’s when you start approaching the 7s and 8s. Confidence can always compensate for a lack of looks (within reason though ).

I’m not single now but when I am, I flirt with all women whether I’m attracted to them or not. I’ve always got to keep my mouth piece sharp. I might not need to use my knife but I’ve got to make sure it can still cut when I need it.

Get a good social circle of friends who aren’t married and have game. That’s the quickest way you’ll learn.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Kill yaself

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Well you did say you’re facially challenged but you’ve got height working to your advantage.

I’m not saying women ain’t shallow but they’ll take a tall ugly breh over a short good looking one 8/10.

@god shamgod is right. You’ve got to start off approaching 4s and 5s. If you’ve never lifted weights before, you can’t jump on bench pressing 200lbs. You’ve got to start on the small dumbbells first and work your way.

Once you’re comfortable with average looking women, that’s when you start approaching the 7s and 8s. Confidence can always compensate for a lack of looks (within reason though ).

I’m not single now but when I am, I flirt with all women whether I’m attracted to them or not. I’ve always got to keep my mouth piece sharp. I might not need to use my knife but I’ve got to make sure it can still cut when I need it.

How do I learn to not take rejection so personally with my history?

I could never do the bolded.

If I woman I didn't even find attractive embarrassed me while I was hitting on here I couldn't handle it .

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Kill yaself

I would have a long time ago but I have family that would actually care if I did.

I had it planned out and everything including a suicide note

 

[ThrobbingHood]

How do I learn to not take rejection so personally with my history?

I could never do the bolded.

If I woman I didn't even find attractive embarrassed me while I was hitting on here I couldn't handle it .

ALL men get curved. I do to this day. So what? Life goes on. The worst a woman can say is no. There are billions of others out there. Why would I give a shyt if there are some women out there that aren’t feeling me?

I’m not gonna die. I’m not gonna lose a penny nor sleep over it. I move onto the next one. Rejection will only make you stronger. If I approach 20 women, 19 reject me but a solid 8/10 hooks up with me, I’ve won in the end, the other 19 lost.

Do you know how you definitely lose? By never approaching.

 

[Nintendough]

I'm starting to resent them and I really don't want to.

I understand that it's completely unhealthy and I don't want it to get any worse than it already is.

You could try having sex with one fakkit

 

[Roid Jones]

I'm starting to resent them and I really don't want to.

I understand that it's completely unhealthy and I don't want it to get any worse than it already is.

Stay away from the coli for a month

 

[Mandarin Duck]

ALL men get curved. I do to this day. So what? Life goes on. The worst a woman can say is no. There are billions of others out there. Why would I give a shyt if there are some women out there that aren’t feeling me?

I’m not gonna die. I’m not gonna lose a penny nor sleep over it. I move onto the next one. Rejection will only make you stronger. If I approach 20 women, 19 reject me but a solid 8/10 hooks up with me, I’ve won in the end, the other 19 lost.

Do you know how you definitely lose? By never approaching.

I have this mentality with everything I do except women.

If I apply for a job and I don't get it, who cares they missing out.

If I try to lift more weight at the gym and I fail who cares, I'll get it next time.

But when it comes to women I don't think like that.

I'll try to change tho

 

[semicko82]

Well you did say you’re facially challenged but you’ve got height working to your advantage.

I’m not saying women ain’t shallow but they’ll take a tall ugly breh over a short good looking one 8/10.

@god shamgod is right. You’ve got to start off approaching 4s and 5s. If you’ve never lifted weights before, you can’t jump on bench pressing 200lbs. You’ve got to start on the small dumbbells first and work your way up.

Once you’re comfortable with average looking women, that’s when you start approaching the 7s and 8s. Confidence can always compensate for a lack of looks (within reason though ).

I’m not single now but when I am, I flirt with all women whether I’m attracted to them or not. I’ve always got to keep my mouth piece sharp. I might not need to use my knife but I’ve got to make sure it can still cut when I need it.

Get a good social circle of friends who aren’t married and have game. That’s the quickest way you’ll learn.

Disagree short good looking guy will get picked over tall ugly dude

 

[semicko82]

Kill yaself

Good idea

 

[god shamgod]

I'm not expecting you to have the answer because this is just a forum, but what do I do to work on my self image?

I already work out regularly.

this

In your mind you don't believe in yourself at all.That's good you work out but you need to do more than that, there's plenty of buff in shape cats gettin no buns.

read books about changing your mentality.Like self help shyt or some tony robbins type book(I have no suggestions use google) then next tighten your wardrobe up so you look fly
trust me chicks notice well groomed nikkas with style , a shorty came up to me at work saying she liked my prada sunglasses she was low key

these are some steps that can help you.Then work on small talking with strangers just simple interactions that will help you get over the "It's weird to talk to someone I don't know " nonsense

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I would have a long time ago but I have family that would actually care if I did.

I had it planned out and everything including a suicide note

So u resent women that much

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I have this mentality with everything I do except women.

If I apply for a job and I don't get it, who cares they missing out.

If I try to lift more weight at the gym and I fail who cares, I'll get it next time.

But when it comes to women I don't think like that.

I'll try to change tho

You’ve got to start somewhere breh. Good luck. No man is immune to rejection, always remember that.

Disagree short good looking guy will get picked over tall ugly dude

From what I’ve seen and heard, a woman would rather grit her teeth and look up to kiss an ugly dude than crouch or bend over to kiss their short man.

 

[semicko82]

From what I’ve seen and heard, a woman would rather grit her teeth and look up to kiss an ugly dude than crouch or bend over to kiss their short man. [/QUOTE]
Interesting

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Side note: I'm not a fan of how struggling with women is only associated with cacs.

Yet another unfair stereotype black men put on themselves like we all supposed to be players or something.