How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

[semicko82]

Having women straight up tell me they like me, but would never date me because of how I looked.

Having mad friends that got p*ssy easy.

I remember my orientation day at college the instructor told us to turn the people to our left and right and say hi.

I had the corner seat and the woman to my right wouldn't even turn around to say hi.

I had moved to LA from a small town thinking it was going to be my chance to be different, but that situation made me feel exactly how I did when I was in HS and never talk to anyone in college.

My self-esteem is very low and any interaction I'll have with a woman will only make it even lower.

I definitely emphasize with you. I’ve been there and I’m not a player hater type.

 

[god shamgod]

That's because you don't know me or what I look like and I can tell you for a fact regardless of how I approach a girl I find attractive it will end with security being called on me.

man what the fukk

 

[semicko82]

That's because you don't know me or what I look like and I can tell you for a fact regardless of how I approach a girl I find attractive it will end with security being called on me.

Wait what? You got to drop the story? Security was called on you

 

[Mandarin Duck]

man what the fukk

I'm not joking.

Would you tell Kent to walk up to someone like this


And expect the results to end positively?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Wait what? You got to drop the story? Security was called on you

Naw I'm being dramatic.

But me walking up to a woman I find attractive would not end well based on how I look

 

[god shamgod]

I'm not joking.

Would you tell Kent to walk up to someone like this


And expect the results to end positively?

Then aim lower and holla at 4's and 5's just for the interactions, the experience.

& work on building up your self esteem.Identify why you feel unworthy or whatever then work on things to improve your self

You clearly need to work on your mentality first & foremost.You're too self defeated

males in general gotta stop putting attractive women on pedestals

 

[bordeaux]

ur very hard on yourself breh.

what do u mean what u look like? is it your height? people hav called u ugly?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Then aim lower and holla at 4's and 5's just for the interactions, the experience.

& work on building up your self esteem.Identify why you feel unworthy or whatever then work on things to improve your self

You clearly need to work on your mentality first & foremost.You're too self defeated

males in general gotta stop putting attractive women on pedestals

But didn't you say to go after women I find attractive?

So do I go after women I find attractive or 4's?

So I'm making an excuse when you suggest I go to Walmart and talk to attractive women then when you see her, you say go after 4's.

That only proves my point that walking into Walmart and talking to women I find attractive would have been a horrible idea.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

ur very hard on yourself breh.

what do u mean what u look like? is it your height? people hav called u ugly?

I'm 6'1 and yeah people have called me ugly throughout my whole life.

I was that kid that when I walked by girls would say "look there's your boyfriend" just to clown their other friends.

 

[semicko82]

I'm 6'1 and yeah people have called me ugly throughout my whole life.

I was that kid that when I walked by girls would say "look there's your boyfriend" just to clown their other friends.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I'm 6'1 and yeah people have called me ugly throughout my whole life.

I was that kid that when I walked by girls would say "look there's your boyfriend" just to clown their other friends.

Are you in shape?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Are you in shape?

Yes. The best shape I've ever been in in my life.

I started working out consistently over a year ago and the results have been great.

My problem was I was under the false impression that women will fall into your lap because you're in shape.

And it didn't work that way.

 

[god shamgod]

But didn't you say to go after women I find attractive?

So do I go after women I find attractive or 4's?

So I'm making an excuse when you suggest I go to Walmart and talk to attractive women then when you see her, you say go after 4's.

That only proves my point that walking into Walmart and talking to women I find attractive would have been a horrible idea.

I didn't know you had the mentality you had when I said that, you said you had low self esteem.

So I was saying aim lower then work up to the ones you want just for female interactions in general/experience but you honestly need to work on your self image,personality and mentality 1st then approach the chicks.

You can hide behind the woe is me I have low self esteem stuff but there's plenty of dudes who aren't the best lookin to the opposite sex with gf's and getting p*ssy.It's your mentality really holding you back

You said you were insecure about being tall bruh shyt like that is unheard of

 

[Zero]

Naw.

Outside of work it's the only interaction with people I have

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I didn't know you had the mentality you had when I said that, you said you had low self esteem.

So I was saying aim lower then work up to the ones you want just for female interactions in general/experience but you honestly need to work on your self image,personality and mentality 1st then approach the chicks.

You can hide behind the woe is me I have low self esteem stuff but there's plenty of dudes who aren't the best lookin to the opposite sex with gf's and getting p*ssy.It's your mentality really holding you back

You said you were insecure about tall bruh shyt like that is unheard of

I'm not expecting you to have the answer because this is just a forum, but what do I do to work on my self image?

I already work out regularly.