How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

semicko82

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Wait why do you hate women?

Real talk you sound mad entitled breh, you're not owed interaction or even as much as hello from women. Man, I love women, bytch ass dudes are the ones I can't stand!

Fix your situation and your environment. Put some time into you go read more books, also go travel more and stop fukking with people in TLR and social media.

Either way fix you and your problems will be fixed.
Life is not that simple, the same woman you love may have fukked over other dudes. See it from another breh perspective
 

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@DarianaGrande

Why would a woman want to be with you?

From the way you describe yourself you sound like a misery that doesn’t know how to interact with people?

You wanna blame women cause you don’t want to improve your life?

Blaming others will never help your situation.
 

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You’re right unless you have connections and luck everyone has to work for what they want
Whilst that is true, I’ve been round many Trust fund adults and trust me, not all that glitters is gold.

When you have life served to you on a platter, that unearned privilege usually leads to an empty feeling, which leads to drugs.

Why do you think so many rich kids end up being drug addicts? They only have drugs to fill that void. I’m glad I grew up understanding the value of hard work and money. It made me a better person than a lot of those born with a silver spoon in their mouths.
 

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It’s a cold world breh nobody cares about a black mans feelings :mjcry:

Nah bruh , homeboy just made a thread last week saying he's tired of spending Saturday nights alone and wish he had a girl to chill with

Step out your comfort zone and change your situation. A lot of y'all on here don't seem willing to make the moves to change things

you not getting no chicks if you don't holla.

Today sunday, go to your local target/wal mart or grocery store and approach a chick(21+) you find attractive

regardless of the results if she rejects you keep it movin if she gives you the # text her tonight.That's taking a step

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this is what I said and this was his response. These nikkas don't want to change they just want to complain :yeshrug:
 

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Nah bruh , homeboy just made a thread last week saying he's tired of spending Saturday nights alone and wish he had a girl to chill with







this is what I said and this was his response. These nikkas don't want to change they just want to complain :yeshrug:
Not going to lie, I used to be like OP, but I worked on improving myself and stepped out of my comfort zone. I’m still not seeing the results I want, but life isn’t fair.
 

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You're unplugged though and that guy is not. He really out here talking about tribalism. Imagine giving a shyt about a name you ain't build, from people you never met. :russ:
Facts!!!
 

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@DarianaGrande

Why would a woman want to be with you?

From the way you describe yourself you sound like a misery that doesn’t know how to interact with people?

You wanna blame women cause you don’t want to improve your life?

Blaming others will never help your situation.
Quote where at any point I said women are at fault or the reason why I can't get them.

I fully understand women don't owe me shyt.

That doesn't change the fact that I developed a resentment towards them.
 

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Quote where at any point I said women are at fault or the reason why I can't get them.

I fully understand women don't owe me shyt.

That doesn't change the fact that I developed a resentment towards them.
Where does the resentment come from? It’s got to be one event in particular
 

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Where does the resentment come from? It’s got to be one event in particular
Having women straight up tell me they like me, but would never date me because of how I looked.

Having mad friends that got p*ssy easy.

I remember my orientation day at college the instructor told us to turn the people to our left and right and say hi.

I had the corner seat and the woman to my right wouldn't even turn around to say hi.

I had moved to LA from a small town thinking it was going to be my chance to be different, but that situation made me feel exactly how I did when I was in HS and never talk to anyone in college.

My self-esteem is very low and any interaction I'll have with a woman will only make it even lower.
 

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Nah bruh , homeboy just made a thread last week saying he's tired of spending Saturday nights alone and wish he had a girl to chill with







this is what I said and this was his response. These nikkas don't want to change they just want to complain :yeshrug:
That's because you don't know me or what I look like and I can tell you for a fact regardless of how I approach a girl I find attractive it will end with security being called on me.
 

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Whilst that is true, I’ve been round many Trust fund adults and trust me, not all that glitters is gold.

When you have life served to you on a platter, that unearned privilege usually leads to an empty feeling, which leads to drugs.

Why do you think so many rich kids end up being drug addicts? They only have drugs to fill that void. I’m glad I grew up understanding the value of hard work and money. It made me a better person than a lot of those born with a silver spoon in their mouths.
Drugs fill the void for me now but I didn't grow up rich.

I swear when I post on here it's the weekend, I'm out of coke and all I have is a bunch of time to reflect on how depressed I am.

Until my dealer finally responds and I can get high and not have to think about how alone I am.

Needless to say he didn't respond this weekend
 
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