How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

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@Mandarin Duck how is it coming along?
I don't feel like this anymore.

I'm a lot better with women now. And in life.

Experience helped. Just talk to women. And people in general.

Now that I'm outside of this dark mentality I can notice women and the small ways they let you know they're interested.

It makes me feel like women have probably been doing this to me before but I was just too depressed to notice.
 

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I don't feel like this anymore.

I'm a lot better with women now. And in life.

Experience helped. Just talk to women. And people in general.

Now that I'm outside of this dark mentality I can notice women and the small ways they let you know they're interested.

It makes me feel like women have probably been doing this to me before but I was just too depressed to notice.

Glad to hear this.

The trick is that women are people, not some unknowable creature that has to be tamed by arcane means. Once I realized that a lot of women (including certified dimes) are just as socially awkward as I am, that truly changed the game. :wow:
 

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I’m having a hard time understanding resentment for ALL women.

Like, that takes some real triggering shyt. shyt I’m sure none of the people on the board have experienced.

Like being embarrassed or shamed publicly, and frequently. Like there would have to be an established bad relationship thru history for me to think a person would start disliking or resenting ALL women.

Abuse as a child from a woman. Things like that.

I don’t think anyone here has suffered like that.
 

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I’m having a hard time understanding resentment for ALL women.

Like, that takes some real triggering shyt. shyt I’m sure none of the people on the board have experienced.

Like being embarrassed or shamed publicly, and frequently. Like there would have to be an established bad relationship thru history for me to think a person would start disliking or resenting ALL women.

Abuse as a child from a woman. Things like that.

I don’t think anyone here has suffered like that.
There are angry ass incels on here. Don't think shyt happened to them besides not getting any play... They start dwelling I'm manosphere spaces and using that language.
 

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I’m having a hard time understanding resentment for ALL women.

Like, that takes some real triggering shyt. shyt I’m sure none of the people on the board have experienced.

Like being embarrassed or shamed publicly, and frequently. Like there would have to be an established bad relationship thru history for me to think a person would start disliking or resenting ALL women.

Abuse as a child from a woman. Things like that.

I don’t think anyone here has suffered like that.


Thats not how the subconscious works. Did you know the senses are like algorithms collecting data? They take a small sample size and use that as an overarching blueprint to navigate life. So if youve had your feelings hurt by a few women, In order to protect itself the subconscious may tell you to avoid all women. The subconscious is also about predicting outcomes. The subconscious does this to protect you. But in doing so,also creates more scenarios and logs memories that never actually happened. For example someone may remember a girl rejected them because their subconciouS predicted she would. But in reality he/she never actually made an attempt out of fear of that prediction coming true. The mind doesnt seperate its a false memory.



The key is having a more positive perception,that looks for the good in your interactions. And gaining validation,in order to create positive memories. This may mean you need to talk to women your uninterested in just to gain positive experiences for the subconcious. The subconscious wont remember they were ugly,obese,twice your age. And the greatest key to getting women is this proverb


"The same way you get children to like you,is the same way you gain the favor of a woman:respect:#TheChildOfMan"
 

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I’m having a hard time understanding resentment for ALL women.

Like, that takes some real triggering shyt. shyt I’m sure none of the people on the board have experienced.

Like being embarrassed or shamed publicly, and frequently. Like there would have to be an established bad relationship thru history for me to think a person would start disliking or resenting ALL women.

Abuse as a child from a woman. Things like that.

I don’t think anyone here has suffered like that.
I think there was a thread about abuse where a bunch of people opened up actually
 

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There are angry ass incels on here. Don't think shyt happened to them besides not getting any play... They start dwelling I'm manosphere spaces and using that language.
It's crazy because that's pretty much it.

It's even more messed up when you realize it's men going well into their 40s and thinking things like this.

Logic goes out the window when that ego kicks in. People always look to blame other people for their problems but never look at themselves forst.

I've been seeing this in real life in real time with some guys I know.

@Mandarin Duck I'm happy to hear you're doing better man, the world's has plenty of beautify and over a billion women on it. There's so much out there.
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I don't feel like this anymore.

I'm a lot better with women now. And in life.

Experience helped. Just talk to women. And people in general.

Now that I'm outside of this dark mentality I can notice women and the small ways they let you know they're interested.

It makes me feel like women have probably been doing this to me before but I was just too depressed to notice.
Glad to hear this brother. To quote the late great Kevin Samuels women aren't your enemy.
 
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