How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

[Rozay Oro]

Learn to focus on yourself and understand your worth.

Understand that men are the prize, and that it's the job of women (all women, everywhere collectively... even our mothers and sisters) to convince you otherwise.

Don't let them convince you otherwise.

Example:

Couple years ago I knew a breh who was a carpenter. Young breh, maybe 28 years old. Not supremely handsome, but a good dude with a good head on his shoulders. But he was heavy into Instagram and shyt and it had done a number on his mind.

He was describing that he was having trouble meeting women. He said that women were turned off when he told them he was a carpenter, because they wanted a white-collar dude, or a baller or a dude with more potential or whatever.

So I thought on this for a minute and asked...

"What do these women bring to the table?"

He paused, confused and asked what I meant.

I said...

"You're a carpenter... which means that if you get one of your electrical brehs, a plumbing breh, an HVAC breh, and a breh who pours concrete... the five of you collectively could build any of those women a house with your bare hands."

I paused to let him think on that. Then I said...

"If you combined the five most competent women you've been rejected by, what could they accomplish, collectively? They could probably take a hell of a selfie. Maybe one of them is a nursing student. Maaaaaybe one of them can kinda cook. But really, what do they bring to the table?"

I could see on his face, breh was ........ So then he asked, "Ok, knowing that, what do I do? I still have to tell them I'm a carpenter."

I said, "If you really wanna play the game, do this. Go down to the post office and grab one of those LLC kits. Start an LLC. It will cost you about $200 dollars. Once that's done, you are a business owner. So now when you go on dates, instead of telling women that you're a carpenter, you tell them that you own a carpentry business. You'll be doing the exact same work and making the exact same money, but being a 'business owner' is more social-media acceptable than being a 'carpenter'. But understand that this is a tactic that will only work on what will end up being the wrong kind of woman. You'll eat off this, but you'll be eating popcorn when you should be looking for steak. The right kind of woman won't care what your job title is. She'll care about how you treat her and how you provide for her."

The point of this story: Women are largely worthless, but social media and simps have given them the bravado to demand whatever they want from men who, logically, should be out of their league. I'm not saying to hate women, but don't put them on a pedestal either. Their shyt stinks just like ours.

Men are the builders, the protectors, the providers. Understand your worth; hold out for a woman who inspires you to boss up to your potential. Hold out for a woman who makes you feel like you you never wanna tell another lie. And understand that it is ok not to have a woman at all, or to cut a woman off if she's acting up.

In the meantime, focus on yourself; because you don't get women by chasing them, you get women by being better than them.

I have a very long way to go then. I'd be depressed if I didn't have working out that I plan to start midweek. I've given myself few things to look forward that are productive. This all gives me a bittersweet feeling. I'd do almost anything to restart life. I'm playing catch up like a mother fukker. I want dates and affection more than just sex.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

good on you OP for stopping it before it get worse.

heal yourself

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Exposure. Get off of forums and go mert and hang with actual women.

shyts no different than white folk being angry and racist towards us and women. Whole forums built for anonymous hate.

For real thecoli especially now is not a healthy place. Nor is social media. Go live and meet and interact with sctual people and you'll realize some ppl are shytty and others arent so bad.

basically. you really need to just go meet people period, and focus on being someone that other people want to be around and building with like-minded people. You can only pull women on some solo dolo no friend shyt if you got a level of spiritual mastery and self-confidence that you just aint on, just keeping it G

The locker room is just a bad sub-forum to be in if you got women or porn issues. First threads you see are "latinas with big titties appreciation" "random IG thot gets seeded by random trap rapper" "cardi b fukkery" "black person being harrassed/killed/beaten etc" "see how these pawgs really feel bout us brehs* *random poster exposed* *study shows more men are taking more Ls* Its bad for your soul in it's currently fragile state...

Just stick to the booth and the film room. You not getting any p*ssy so I assume you are consuming some type of media

 

[Mandarin Duck]

basically. you really need to just go meet people period, and focus on being someone that other people want to be around and building with like-minded people. You can only pull women on some solo dolo no friend shyt if you got a level of spiritual mastery and self-confidence that you just aint on, just keeping it G

The locker room is just a bad sub-forum to be in if you got women or porn issues. First threads you see are "latinas with big titties appreciation" "random IG thot gets seeded by random trap rapper" "cardi b fukkery" "black person being harrassed/killed/beaten etc" "see how these pawgs really feel bout us brehs* *random poster exposed* *study shows more men are taking more Ls* Its bad for your soul in it's currently fragile state...

Just stick to the booth and the film room. You not getting any p*ssy so I assume you are consuming some type of media

The reason why I'm not with the whole blaming this forum for my resentment towards women is because I felt like this way before I even joined the coli.

It's my life experiences with women that led me to feel the way I do.

 

[Mook]

That's selfish though because she has her own life and happiness to obtain and that should not come secondary to reputation for other people. She might generally loves what she does and isn't trying to tarnish the family name. Me personally regardless of what my kids become I want us all to sit at the table and be family.

You're unplugged though and that guy is not. He really out here talking about tribalism. Imagine giving a shyt about a name you ain't build, from people you never met.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Well you just have to get over the fact that women lie about their nature. NO woman ever in your family/or friends will ever be truthful to a man about what attracts them. Ya know why? Because they don't know themselves.

Plus they are unwilling to admit the darkness of their sexuallity.

Also, if ya ugly, ya just ugly. Nothing you can do about it but be mad at ya parents for even reproducing

/thread. Anything else is just setting breh up for failure. All the simps running in here to improve himself when chances are that breh is 5'5" and has the face of an ogre. He would just waste his time by leveling up. IMO he should be on his #moneygrind and get enough money to where he can have freedom . Money can't buy you women or happiness but it can buy you security, safety and health .

 

[semicko82]

/thread. Anything else is just setting breh up for failure. All the simps running in here to improve himself when chances are that breh is 5'5" and has the face of an ogre. He would just waste his time by leveling up. IMO he should be on his #moneygrind and get enough money to where he can have freedom . Money can't buy you women or happiness but it can buy you security, safety and health .

Wealth don’t buy health also

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Wealth don’t buy health also

Yes, and no. Money can get you fit and healthy but the outside world and genetics can also say "fukk you" (cancer, heart problems etc.).

 

[Eddy Gordo]

The reason why I'm not with the whole blaming this forum for my resentment towards women is because I felt like this way before I even joined the coli.

It's my life experiences with women that led me to feel the way I do.

What is it that you want from these women breh?

 

[semicko82]

Bare in mind, I was ugly gang during puberty. Most of us are.

I made a lot of changes physically. I started working out, eating more healthily. Made sure I was well groomed. I started growing into my looks more. I dressed more fly.

Having said that, your physical exterior may get your foot in the door... but having a solid mouth piece >>>>> anything else. Being in ugly gang was a blessing because it forced me to be more outgoing, which means you have to learn how to engage in small talk with women, be funny, witty and charming.

Most importantly, I had friends who had mad game. If you hang around people like that long enough, you’ll pick up tips and develop your own game. If I played with Michael Jordan for years, I may never be as good as him but I’ll learn a lot of his best techniques by playing with him. No different than being around ladies men, you pick up their skills and apply to your own.

Some brehs are born with the cheat code in life, being blessed with the genetic lottery. Some of us have to work hard for it. I’m glad I’m in the latter category because looks will eventually fade, a mind can only get sharper and brighter as you get older. And that’s what will keep a woman engaged with you.

So in other words you have to put in a lot of work.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

So in other words you have to put in a lot of work.

Anything worth having in life you’ve got to work hard for breh.

 

[---]

Wait why do you hate women?

Real talk you sound mad entitled breh, you're not owed interaction or even as much as hello from women. Man, I love women, bytch ass dudes are the ones I can't stand!

Fix your situation and your environment. Put some time into you go read more books, also go travel more and stop fukking with people in TLR and social media.

Either way fix you and your problems will be fixed.

 

[Kings County]

Same ole Coli story you've heard a million times.

embarrassment/rejection/etc

get in the gym
fix your personality flaws
change your wardrobe and approach
read techniques on how to attract and keep women
if u keep getting embarrassed rejected.... no disrespect you're prolly a lame to them but u can fix that

 

[number21]

That is the nature of a woman who hasn't had the guidance and wisdom of a man,which is what you are witnessing as the problem just continues to be generational. Even the ones who have men in their life,the men are disinterested in giving guidance to them on how to be righteous women. Once you see them as children and take it upon yourself to do what other men are unwilling to do,OUT THE GATE,you will be much more satisfied. And the women will be far more appreciative even if you have to cut them off,they will realize the difference between a real man and these other men who don't give a damn about having reckless,loud mouthed hellhounds around as long as they are giving up p*ssy.These women are not women you want to have around you if you aren't doing the work,or willing to do the work. Because unlike actual children,women aren't innocent and often be made to have evil intentions,or act recklessly and put you at risk.

Total facts. Good post breh.

 

[number21]

Shoutout to the cats who actual did their best to make this a legit convo and not try to shyt and shame op.