How do I eliminate my growing resentment towards women?

[Benefited]

OP all you need is some female validation,it cures all. You need to figure out how will you get that validation,will you make yourself more attractive,will you improve your mouthpiece. Do you understand you need to adjust if you make yourself more attractive and women still don't want you?If you improve your mouthpiece and its still not good enough? Do you understand you will need to adjust in the type of women you are looking to attract?Did you know you can turn a 5 into 7,7 to a 9?I have a thread on that.

Also look at your life,do you have a life?if not you need to get one or realize you will need to find boring women. Last place you need to be at is at the club which is usually the hang out of social butterflies. But you still need to go out and explore and shoot shots,sadly you are in LA which will probably make things harder for you,might wanna move

 

[mag357]

That is the nature of a woman who hasn't had the guidance and wisdom of a man,which is what you are witnessing as the problem just continues to be generational. Even the ones who have men in their life,the men are disinterested in giving guidance to them on how to be righteous women. Once you see them as children and take it upon yourself to do what other men are unwilling to do,OUT THE GATE,you will be much more satisfied. And the women will be far more appreciative even if you have to cut them off,they will realize the difference between a real man and these other men who don't give a damn about having reckless,loud mouthed hellhounds around as long as they are giving up p*ssy.These women are not women you want to have around you if you aren't doing the work,or willing to do the work. Because unlike actual children,women aren't innocent and often be made to have evil intentions,or act recklessly and put you at risk.

CHURCH!!

 

[mag357]

Help a breh eat too

Lol
A couple ways to go about this...
I dnt advise either 1 tho...
Itll literally make u feel like ur taking candy from a baby...
And I'm sure theres a nice comfortable spot in hell for ppl like that.

 

[mag357]

My point is that you have a pattern of complaining about female sexual behavior and the need for restrictions.

True...
I should be shown to have a pattern of complaining about not only thots, but ppl not giving a fukk about their kids...
Kids being nastier than a muthafuka...
Saying the word "muthafuka" alot....
A pattern of pointing out men acting like women in society...
I complain alot about alot of things that I feel arent right in this society
The reason this world has turned into a shyt whole is because ppl just want ppl to be "free" and "if it's not hurting anybody"...
Now u got men dressing like women and going into bathrooms with ur daughters...
Women walking around with every curve on their bodies exposed and wondering why men only treat them like sex objects...
But fukk it

 

[chowism]

True...
I should be shown to have a pattern of complaining about not only thots, but ppl not giving a fukk about their kids...
Kids being nastier than a muthafuka...
Saying the word "muthafuka" alot....
A pattern of pointing out men acting like women in society...
I complain alot about alot of things that I feel arent right in this society
The reason this world has turned into a shyt whole is because ppl just want ppl to be "free" and "if it's not hurting anybody"...
Now u got men dressing like women and going into bathrooms with ur daughters...
Women walking around with every curve on their bodies exposed and wondering why men only treat them like sex objects...
But fukk it

You shouldn't worry about fixing society because as crazy as it might sound the world is actually perfect the way it is. There are no accidents and with time humans will learn lessons that will make us change and adapt our the way we live. Also the reality is that men should view women as more than sex objects regardless of how they dress. The amount of clothing you wear should not determine how much respect you receive.

 

[mag357]

You shouldn't worry about fixing society because as crazy as it might sound the world is actually perfect the way it is. There are no accidents and with time humans will learn lessons that will make us change and adapt our the way we live. Also the reality is that men should view women as more than sex objects regardless of how they dress. The amount of clothing you wear should not determine how much respect you receive.

1st point luvd it...
The 2cd part... not so much lol
The type of clothing and the amount of clothing u wear... like anything else u do in this world, will determine the amount of respect u garner in the world...
If I walk into a job interview wearing a clown suit...
Or if I'm talking to investors with some speedo shorts on...
They should look at mean with all kindza respect, but they wont....
This is reality and we are human beings.
The biggest question is, do you tell the females in ur family that line about respect?
Do u tell ur daughters or nieces to go and wear whatever they wanna wear, because they should get the same respect, even if they are only wearing panties on a date?
Anyway, we may have just different outlooks on life... no biggie

 

[chowism]

1st point luvd it...
The 2cd part... not so much lol
The type of clothing and the amount of clothing u wear... like anything else u do in this world, will determine the amount of respect u garner in the world...
If I walk into a job interview wearing a clown suit...
Or if I'm talking to investors with some speedo shorts on...
They should look at mean with all kindza respect, but they wont....
This is reality and we are human beings.
The biggest question is, do you tell the females in ur family that line about respect?
Do u tell ur daughters or nieces to go and wear whatever they wanna wear, because they should get the same respect, even if they are only wearing panties on a date?
Anyway, we may have just different outlooks on life... no biggie

I don't disagree at all that people will treat you according to how you dress but I'm saying me personally even if I see a chick that dresses like a stripper I'm gonna treat her with basic human respect regardless. I only disrespect people intentionally if they disrespect me is all. I don't have a daughter but if I did I would make sure I give her great advice about life but once she's a grown woman out on her on I can't control how she wants to live her life. If my daughter was a pornstar I would still love her and rep her being my daughter to the fullest and treat her just as well as if I had a doctor for a daughter.

 

[mag357]

I don't disagree at all that people will treat you according to how you dress but I'm saying me personally even if I see a chick that dresses like a stripper I'm gonna treat her with basic human respect regardless. I only disrespect people intentionally if they disrespect me is all. I don't have a daughter but if I did I would make sure I give her great advice about life but once she's a grown woman out on her on I can't control how she wants to live her life. If my daughter was a pornstar I would still love her and rep her being my daughter to the fullest and treat her just as well as if I had a doctor for a daughter.

This is a good convo...
I always like to point out the difference in "not respecting" some one and "disrespecting them".
I dnt respect everybody and I dnt go out of my way to disrespect anybody...
Respect has to be earned tho, the way u carry urself is a big part of that... Dress/talk etc...
And yea... I figured we just have a difference in how we see certain things in life....
If I had a pornstar daughter, shes gonna basically be cut off... shes blatantly disrespecting a family name that many ppl before her have tried hard to bring honor to...
A couple things tho, I dnt have kids, so I could totally just be talking out my ass right now lol...
And I could be 100% wrong in the way i view that situation...

 

[PL368Z]

By admitting to yourself that you're a homosexual.

How many TLR brehs are gonna go "Damn, I really fukking hate women" before y'all realize, a lot of y'all are just gay.
You're not attracted to women, but society tells you that you have to be, and so you get resentful because you aren't.


Psychoanalyzing TLR, how could this ever go wrong

Or you know they're just misogynistic

 

[chowism]

This is a good convo...
I always like to point out the difference in "not respecting" some one and "disrespecting them".
I dnt respect everybody and I dnt go out of my way to disrespect anybody...
Respect has to be earned tho, the way u carry urself is a big part of that... Dress/talk etc...
And yea... I figured we just have a difference in how we see certain things in life....
If I had a pornstar daughter, shes gonna basically be cut off... shes blatantly disrespecting a family name that many ppl before her have tried hard to bring honor too...
A couple things tho, I dnt have kids, so I could totally just be talking out my ass right now lol...
And I could be 100% wrong in the way i view that situation...

That's selfish though because she has her own life and happiness to obtain and that should not come secondary to reputation for other people. She might generally loves what she does and isn't trying to tarnish the family name. Me personally regardless of what my kids become I want us all to sit at the table and be family.

 

[number21]

Don't see them as equals or on your level.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Why you think so many of us struggle to get our foot in the door with women?

Because the game is rigged against us.

When we're kids, we're taught that girls are princesses, you have to treat them like princesses.
When we're adolescents, we're taught that "girls mature faster than boys" so you have to listen to them and do what they say.
As adults "happy wife happy life" became a thing... to say that a man's happiness is secondary to and comes only as a by-product of his woman's happiness.

And so we have all these types of things hammered into our heads from all directions since we're children.

Can anyone point to anything positive that women are taught about men (or girls about boys) at any point in their development? No, because no such thing exists.

It's "All men are pigs (or dogs or trash, depending on your age and generation)".
Men only want one thing....
etc... etc....

So we're playing the same game, but were playing by different rules.

...because...

What men want, is to meet a woman... just 1 woman... who finally lives up to the hype.
What women want, is a man who finally defies all their expectations about what they've been taught men are.

And most men play by those rules. So they struggle.

 

[semicko82]

Because the game is rigged against us.

When we're kids, we're taught that girls are princesses, you have to treat them like princesses.
When we're adolescents, we're taught that "girls mature faster than boys" so you have to listen to them and do what they say.
As adults, women are "our equals" and yet somehow "happy wife happy life" became a thing.

And so we have all these types of things hammered into our heads from all directions since we're children.

Can anyone point to anything positive that women are taught about men (or girls about boys) at any point in their development? No, because no such thing exists.

It's "All men are pigs (or dogs or trash, depending on your age and generation)".
Men only want one thing....
etc... etc....

So we're playing the same game, but were playing by different rules.

...because...

What men want, is to meet a woman... just 1 woman... who finally lives up to the hype.
What women want, is a man who finally defies all their expectations about what they've been taught men are.

And most men play by those rules. So they struggle.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Lol
A couple ways to go about this...
I dnt advise either 1 tho...
Itll literally make u feel like ur taking candy from a baby...
And I'm sure theres a nice comfortable spot in hell for ppl like that.

Help me please

 

[ALonelyDad]

If you resent them because they reject you, you need to go get therapy.


Otherwise keep talking to women, respectfully and don't expect relationships/sex and eventually one will like you back.