How would a mother do those things they can teach them about society but it’s two different worlds for a black man and a black woman which is why I think we see such a gap in how black women perform than black men.
The world is not too dissimilar for black women and black men.
Black mothers can center their children in blackness and explain the differences faced by both black women and black men.
This takes reflecting on the differences among black women and black men in a patriarchal society that gives black women greater access than their counterparts, and speaking this reflection to reach their sons like it does their daughters.
I don’t think we will see a growth until black men start to step up as fathers or even just as mentors to those young black men at times I think we blame women to much when in reality the reason we are so far behind is black men have been lacking it’s a tough thing to say or even admit because ofc it’s not all black men but there is a huge majority who are.
Black women and black men share equal fault but it ain't the same kind of fault.
I agree with you, but the reality is we got more black single mothers than we do black single fathers.
That is the target area because black boys are being raised in a home with single mothers.
Controlling how and who we, as men, reproduce with is as important if not more important for us because if moms start harboring negative emotions toward black men, guess who goin' to catch hell at home?
Overall I think we agree but I just think the blame should shift to the fathers. Also I appreciate you looking out for us young black men trying to give us wisdom we desperately need it from someone who looks like us as it hits in a way a woman can never imo reach us
Black men need to step up, the sooner we can mentor and interact with young black men and give them some good advice the better.
But if moms ain't havin' it, what can we do?
I think about this when thinkin' about having kids. We gotta move with intention with a woman that will support us building.
...we gotta be serious about building.
Peace.