When in your life have you ever seen a feminist cape for a man on any level?
Not sure why I didn't respond to this one earlier but one of the big things about feminism is that it goes to support men's rights and the general emotional health of men. Plainly, feminism is for everybody. There's even a book out there with that title.
Obviously it's not a car crash, I'm showing you an example of how a person can be irresponsible at the same time that something bad happens to them.
Your inability to understand the connection is staggering.
But you're ultimately saying that she was at fault no matter how many times you say she wasn't. You were at a party doing normal things at a party. Did you expect to not be raped?
What you seem to be arguing for is what you're arguing against with another person. That women should be fearful of everyone they meet because they're in danger of being raped simply by being out doing regular things.
Here you go using extremes and outliers as if that's the norm. Stop it man. You see that shyt with dudes saying a chick ain't shyt maybe 10-20% of the time at best. Even the persistence is like you sure and its mainly done. Dudes love hyping up the small shyt into big problems. People can talk about whatever issue they choose doesn't mean anybody has to agree with each other same way you don't agree with
@Raul and I don't agree with you. So there we all can speak on something and not have to agree.
Don't we all have anecdotes, though? Like shyt you see as funny until you realize how fukked up it is.
When I was younger, long after the fact of the actual incidents, my sister would tell stories about how dudes would approach her on the street. She would never admit to being fearful but you could tell from the way she told her story that even when she didn't want to give out her number, not knowing what would happen pretty much forced her hand.
And she even told me a story once about a guy asking her friend for her number as she got off the bus and the dude grabbed the girls arm and dialed the number right then and there. At the time, I thought this was funny because what a silly thing to do. And I didn't realize why women gave out fake numbers other than they thought a dude was ugly. Only later, reflecting on stories like this did I see that being anywhere near guys like that is harmful.
And that's the thing. Nearly every girl you meet will have a story similar to those. It doesn't need extremes or outliers, the majority just needs to tell their stories without being dismissed.
So what percent of the time would it have to be for you to deem it enough of a problem to warrant talking about?