Has it made men less manly? For some weak-minded dudes, sure, but for most men? No. Most women don't want to live up to their gender roles, so why in the world should men do the traditional things like take them out to dinner? Secondly, women reward the guys who do none of that.
Combine that with the fact that feminism has given women a broad toolkit to throw them in jail, then these broads ain't realizing that they are the direct reason they are being ignored. You better make sure she deems you hot and that there's very little room for the 'regret' blowback. Let simps and women respin the narrative and it's all about how real men ain't being real men and treating them like a lady.
Maybe stories like this have something to do with it:
12-Year-Old Black Boy Suspended for Staring at a White Girl Who Stared Back