Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

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O³ (O cubed) said:
I think I've given up. I don't want a significant other anymore.

There was a time last year when I pondered about my later years and having a wife. All of my siblings are married with kids. I look at the joy it brings and wanted that.

But at my age you're not going to find a woman of similar age who hasn't already had children or isn't jaded by past experience.

I don't want to be the Grandpa looking dad going to the parents evening. Or have a kid who's niece or nephew is older than them.

I wouldn't mind a companion. Somebody to go on holiday with. But that's about it.
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You're in your 30s breh?
 
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The ADD said:
I didn’t “give up” life was good overall. I was happy. If you asked me direct I wouldn’t have thought it’s was likely but I wasn’t at a point of saying it wouldn’t happen.

She was always transparent about her shortcomings, what she had down to move past issues and overall wanting to work on the relationship to make it work. When you find someone that doesn’t judge you and basically commits to walking beside you then you just kind of know. In a way she was willing to build with me as a person.
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Nah that’s dope as hell fam hope to find the same one day
 
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Nokids said:
Shiii I did lowkey! All my siblings, cousins , friends etc found a significant other/had kids I’m the only one who didn’t. I’m 32 going on 33 and my parents gave up on me :russ:.

Sometimes I say damn am I ever going to find a wife? I mean I fukked so much girls but at the end of the day every man wants a wife. Idk if I’ll ever find love again but I look at the positives, I’m able to do whatever I want (Travel, eat good, buy fly shyt)

I read a statistic that 1 in 4 people will be single forever and I think I’m in that group sadly. All good tho! Just focused on getting $$$ Everyone’s not gonna find love
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I didn’t get married until I was 38. I was financially ready at 33, but the serious relationship I was in didn’t work out. Neither of us did anything wrong, it just didn’t work. I had some long term FWBs for a few years, and was considering wifing the latest, but there was just something that didn’t feel right. Then COVID hit, and I was here alone with my cats, and felt like a loser. So I said to myself I was going to find a wife as soon as outside opened back up.

BUT, I got the courage to shoot my shot on IG to my high school crush, because I had nothing to lose, and it worked. She said I could have asked her in high school, but most of the guys viewed her as untouchable, because she was quiet, dressed up, and wasn’t allowed out the house. When it’s the right person, things flow easier. It’s still a lot of work, but it doesn’t feel forced if that makes sense. It’s like she’s worth it. Again, nothing was wrong with those other women, it just didn’t feel like they were my wife.

So don’t give up!
 
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DraymondT said:
I peeped game :russ:

Shiieeeet been workin for women for generations. Now they gettin this money too times changin nikkas gotta adapt too. I ain't one of em insecure nikkas who feel some type way if my chick gettin more get yo paper shawty not like I ain't pullin good money myself lol
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Pimps showed us the way a long time ago.
 
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O³ (O cubed) said:
I think I've given up. I don't want a significant other anymore.

There was a time last year when I pondered about my later years and having a wife. All of my siblings are married with kids. I look at the joy it brings and wanted that.

But at my age you're not going to find a woman of similar age who hasn't already had children or isn't jaded by past experience.

I don't want to be the Grandpa looking dad going to the parents evening. Or have a kid who's niece or nephew is older than them.

I wouldn't mind a companion. Somebody to go on holiday with. But that's about it.
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How old are you?
 
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