Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[winb83]

Haven't given serious thought to dating or having sex since about 2012. Personally I've never been happier. I've come to accept that most people in life just go with the life plan handed to them. Go to college, date, get married, buy a house, have kids. Why do you have to do any of that stuff? The answer is you don't.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The world is framed in a way to make us think that if we aren't successful in one particular area that there's something wrong with us.

However, after a lot of reflection, i've come to realize that many people aren't successful because they're actually on the wrong path.

Relationships are one of the areas that I consider the above statement true. The reason so many relationships are unhappy or fail or just generally unbeneficial to the participants is because people relationship wrong.

Now some people interpret this as "man hate." However, if you actually take a step back and look at what motivates people to be in relationships and their ultimate outcomes, it's very glaringly obvious.

But people want what they want. So they will turn a blind eye and keep failing or continue to judge others harshly for losing in a game that they were never supposed to win.