Real talk, good that you brought that up, I think that is one of the most important factors now that you point to that. Having a positive and productive social circle improves your chances greatly.
Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?
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Yup thats my main problem
I meet new ppl occasionally but i dont want to be desperate and press them to hang out
Thank yall for responding to that... i didnt have to spend a bunch of time typing that..
Great responses... pure FACTS
i gave up only i thing i love is this money, fukk everything else
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
Stop looking for love and focus on bettering yourself and it will come to you. A person of high self worth doesn't look for love because if you're looking for it meanings you're lacking
The more you chase after something the more it runs from you, why because you're sending out signals you're not good enough
The more you chase after something the more it runs from you, why because you're sending out signals you're not good enough
DatLBCGuy562
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Please quote the post where I said I was "looking" for love. Read my op again. You're missing my premise.
Clay Puppington
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OP what do you do for a living and in ur spare time
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
A person who's not looking for love isn't even focused on or thinking about a significant other. Whole premise of this thread is you can't find right woman and ready to give up.
Have you ever looked in the mirror and fixed what could be wrong with you. Yes, a lot of people lie but you and I both know what woman to avoid but you keep getting with woman you don't need, says a lot.
DatLBCGuy562
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Me not being able to meet the right woman and commenting on the state of women currently doesn't mean I'm "looking" for anything. The majority of people here are able to comprehend that and understand the two are not parallel or synonymous. Not sure why you can't or why you're so concerned with my dating life to begin with. If you can't relate, why even come in the thread? You just wanna troll and be contrary for the sake of being contrary, like a bytch. Are you a psychologist? Don't psychoanalyze me because you don't know me. You're just trolling and dap fishing from the same bitter, man hating bytches who dap every post that's so called "calling me out". Them bytches are mad. And it looks like you are too. I don't explain myself to internet nikkaz. So you can argue with yourself along with the other bitter, reading comprehension problem having bytches I have on ignore because they can't understand simple English. This is the last reply you're getting from me. So I hope your remedial ass can comprehend it. Peace.
DatLBCGuy562
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ElMorenoFeo809
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I'm 34 and I quit dating at about age 28. It's a waste of my time. It felt like dumpster diving. I at least wanted a woman with her own place, own car, college educated, making a minimum of $50,000 a year annually, no kids. At my age that's impractical. At the very least you're gonna be taking on someone else's kid or kids. I probably should have been more diligent about finding a woman in my 20s.Yet another female got thrown into the bushes tonight. At this point I can almost predict the outcome with these women.
They all start off nice, sweet, and promising that they're "different" than the other women out there.
Then, like clockwork, their true selves emerge. When they get comfortable, upset, or tired of faking nice, they start showing how petty, argumentative, flaky, etc. they can truly be.
I'm 38 and getting. I'm becoming jaded and cynical when it comes to females. I'm sure there are good women out there, somewhere. But what are my chances of meeting them??
I think I'm gonna focus on my health and raising my daughter. This may be it for me brehs. I've had a good run
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
State you don't need psychotherapy but then write that long paragraph showing that you do.
You not finding the right woman and stating how these woman you keep getting with are no good, and you ready to give up says you're looking, you just looking in the wrong places, but you half the problem too, because you don't want to look in the mirror, look how defensive you're getting.
We all need to look at ourselves in the mirror. If something isn't right it might be us who needs changing, but some people don't want to admit that.
Marlostanfield.
High On That Ray Charles
I'm in the same place. It's not so bad. No ex-wives no kids looks good on a dating resume. Throw in some money and a "different" vibe and you can eat to your heart's content.
I would like one nice one tho.
OP, my advice.... start dating women that aren't physically attractive.
I know I know, but on the real... I started dating a legit ugly chick last month and tbh I'm happier with her than I have been in a long time.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so I don't get into all of that which is cute/ugly because everything is beautiful its humans that make things ugly.
Now on what people consider ugly, a woman going to run her game to keep a man, what she lacks in looks she'll make up in other areas, but those areas could be superficial, she's just this way to keep you, but that not might be the real her, only you know the answer to that.