Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

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Just turned 27 and havent given up on love/women. i like being with someone but right now im focus on college which i still have 2 more years to do.
plus i have pretty high standards because whoever i end up in a relationship after college , will most likely be the person i intend to marry.
 

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but the coli told me that id be having fun a 38 fukkin foreign bytches

#GMB :mjcry:

And half these nikkas think they sound like pimps, like they just too cold for the game when they are just sad and looking for people to reinforce their bleak outlook so they can continue not taking responsibility for the direction their life moves.
 
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#GMB :mjcry:

And half these nikkas think they sound like pimps, like they just too cold for the game when they are just sad and looking for people to reinforce their bleak outlook on life so they can continue not taking responsibility for the direction their life moves.
thats why i laught at them
they ay they gonna be 35 - 38 on yacths fukkin bytches but wheres the proof? which person 35-38 on thecoli is living that lifestyle?
its a fantasy land coli nikkas sound depressed behind all the ego
 

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This is disgusting behavior.

Not only are you a sad sack of shyt, but you got in this rut by listening to other men and being afraid...no terrorfied of THEIR experiences. Do you read the shyt you type?

What kind of woman would encounter that kind of fragility and want to stick around? And I'm not trying to berate you fam...I just think it's concerning that you got so many people, some that aren't even nearly old enough to really know love to be giving up on it already....in here co-signing this bullshyt.

Not that there's a time limit on breaking free from this, but you're 38, I feel like letting these people co-sign and hype you up to fall further into the quick sand is me doing you a disservice, please wake the fukk up.
nikka stop. You don't know me. And I don't have to front for the internet like most of you bytch nikkaz and act super tough like I'm not vulnerable and like everything in my life is super perfect all of the time. I don't go back and forth with internet trolls looking to get a rise. But if you're in California, I'd gladly meet up with you so you can get everything off your chest. Hit my inbox. And we'll arrange a sit down since you're such a tough guy. Until then, ignore.
 

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If I was a young buck, I'd just concentrate on stacking. Today's culture, it's just hard to find a good partner. There's just way too many debaucherous options. People are growing to be more wishy washy, have less people skills, more selfish.
 

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If I was a young buck, I'd just concentrate on stacking. Today's culture, it's just hard to find a good partner. There's just way too many debaucherous options. People are growing to be more wishy washy, have less people skills, more selfish.
I feel you family. That's basically what I was saying. As you get older and as time passes, it seems like it's harder and harder to meet a quality woman who is worth investing time and resources into. I'm not like these trolls in here who make six figures, who are never out of shape, and who keep a dime piece on their arm. I actually have problems from time to time. Smh.
 

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Yet if a female made this thread, nikkas would FLY in here and start screaming about accountability:mjlol:.

You were engaged multiple times, none worked out, yet the problem is the woman? Nah breh, its YOU:francis:
Didn't I already neg your fat, angry, man hating ass? Why do you keep coming in here you angry bytch? If that's you in your avatar, you need to focus on a healthy diet and training regimen before your fat ass dies from diabetes or heart disease. Worry about correcting your health choices, not my dating choices. I thought I put you on ignore with that other argumentative troll bytch, but I see I forgot. I'll do that now. Bye bitter bytch. Suck it easy. Ignore.
 

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i'm sure the same married guys who discouraged u from marrying left out the part of all the jacked up stuff they did that contributed to the decline of their marriage :francis:.

u should just focus on your daughter but keep your heart open to the possibility of love
 

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Didn't I already neg your fat, angry, man hating ass? Why do you keep coming in here you angry bytch? If that's you in your avatar, you need to focus on a healthy diet and training regimen before your fat ass dies from diabetes or heart disease. Worry about correcting your health choices, not my dating choices. I thought I put you on ignore with that other argumentative troll bytch, but I see I forgot. I'll do that now. Bye bitter bytch. Suck it easy. Ignore.
You mad as fukk:russ::russ::russ::russ:
 

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I feel OP's pain.. You're competing with a bunch of shyt now. You competing with endless social media options, You competing with feminism, you competing with men in your own area, you competing with studs, you competing with your own ego. The endless options is why people feel entitled to not really bring a effort or A game into a situation. Muthafukkas figure "Oh I don't have to really be on time, I can flake, I can be half ass because I have other folks in my DM wanting to get at me"

Plus you have single women who act like they don't even want to be picked up or go out anymore.

But what you can do is make as many female friends as you can and eventually one is gonna choose... Either that or they gonna put you on to someone. Plus don't make finding the one as a priority
 
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Brehs/brehettes even just be using the shyt for validation to see how many matches they can get and have no intentions on talking or even meeting up. Lemme just see if some random broad/dude I have no intention on meeting thinks I'm attractive :gucci:

Everybody needs a confidence boost every now and then. :_RVD_:
 
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