Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[*Angel*]

So basically its your fault that you're alone.

You clearly had a woman/women you loved, but you let another mans story dictate your own

Welp............

@BrokePhiBroke

Its funny how some men don't realize they've played themselves.

I was listening to the radio back n the day and Atl radio personality Porsha Fox ethered a man on the radio bc he was 40 and claimed to be single bc there were no good women. He said good women were scarce so she asked him about his past relationships and he confessed to having long-term relationships with good women he never had problems with, so she asked him why didn't he marry one of them. He made excuses which made her conclude he had good women but let them go bc he had issues, not them. He tried to argue it was the women that weren't right instead of his own ideals and theories so she had him break down their flaws and it was more excuses. He had relationships with career women who domesticated themselves for him. Porsha pointed out to him that he was the reason he was single and he was silent by the end of that convo. LOL Bruh called in thinking he was about to shyt on women and the radio host called him on his own shyt.

 

[the bossman]

You always gotta raise an eyebrow to anyone who's 35+ talking about there's no good <opposite sex>

Let's say you was focused on having fun in your younger years at school and didn't start dating seriously until 22 or 23. You mean to tell me in 12+ years outta the millions out there you couldn't find not one potential partner?

 

[Poitier]

You mean to tell me in 12+ years outta the millions out there you couldn't find not one potential partner?

Thats a large chunk of Americans though if we look at the numbers. A lot of folks coming across compatible partners but dismiss it because what they prioritize is out of wack.

You got folks entering their 30s still making bomb sex and a physique top priorities for their partners but stuff that should be non-negotiable get wiggle room and they be legitimately confused when it doesn't work out again and again and again then turn bitter instead of looking in the mirror

But sad thing is you gotta sympathize a little. American culture never showed us what to look for in our partners like other cultures do. Instead we got media that told us relationships involved folks without flaws living out fairytales. That or filth about manipulating folks and upgrading when you're able to.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I have given up

 

[sfgiants]

I just want to orgasm.

 

[richaveli83]

I feel you breh and I'm 34. No children, college educated with a good paying career. I'm ugly though so my chances are really low finding someone. That's life.

 

[the bossman]

American culture never showed us what to look for in our partners like other cultures do. Instead we got media that told us relationships involved folks without flaws living out fairytales. That or filth about manipulating folks and upgrading when you're able to.

I do agree the whole "Tinder/swipe right/okcupid" culture has done major damage in the long-term for a lot of folks. Having so many options at your fingertips like you at an all you can eat buffet and all you gotta do is hit yes or no. It leads a lot of people to just throw a person to the bushes the very second any type of disagreement or flaw comes up because these apps/sites give you the illusion there's always something better out there. Or if the first date was just ok, instead of giving it another chance to see if it can pop off the second time around, you're already onto the next. Always expecting perfection. nikkas are jaded as hell now and it's sad to see

Brehs/brehettes even just be using the shyt for validation to see how many matches they can get and have no intentions on talking or even meeting up. Lemme just see if some random broad/dude I have no intention on meeting thinks I'm attractive

 

[Zpektro]

bytches don't have social skills or common sense these days I don't blame y'all for wanting singledom

 

[Rockstar Mom]

@BrokePhiBroke

Its funny how some men don't realize they've played themselves.

I was listening to the radio back n the day and Atl radio personality Porsha Fox ethered a man on the radio bc he was 40 and claimed to be single bc there were no good women. He said good women were scarce so she asked him about his past relationships and he confessed to having long-term relationships with good women he never had problems with, so she asked him why didn't he marry one of them. He made excuses which made her conclude he had good women but let them go bc he had issues, not them. He tried to argue it was the women that weren't right instead of his own ideals and theories so she had him break down their flaws and it was more excuses. He had relationships with career women who domesticated themselves for him. Porsha pointed out to him that he was the reason he was single and he was silent by the end of that convo. LOL Bruh called in thinking he was about to shyt on women and the radio host called him on his own shyt.

Yet if a female made this thread, nikkas would FLY in here and start screaming about accountability.

You were engaged multiple times, none worked out, yet the problem is the woman? Nah breh, its YOU

 

[SunZoo]

Sorry, and maybe someone has pointed it out alredy but OP sounds like a sad sack of shyt...who in the hell wants to be around a sad sack of shyt.

Stop being a sad sack of shyt and having such a negative outlook on life and brighter visions become available, that's how this works. You're not going to be able to bytch and moan your way to love, you've bytched and moaned your way in to sad sack of shytness. The only way to get out...to find 'love' is to start loving yourself....you do that, then women and the rest of the world will follow suit. This shyt has 5 stars so I imagine a bunch of other sad sacks of shyt came in here to dap you up and resonate with your sadness. I want you to imagine all these people in here who agree with you in the same room with you, sharing these war stories in person.

shyt makes me feel icky just thinking about it, very dark...very low energy.



Nobody is going to gravitate toward that, stop trying to source your happiness from outside, I wish you well my nikka.

 

[SunZoo]

Theres a lot of things that factor into not finding a bf but I kinda want one

You're cute af, but there is something causing you to push what it is you say you want away. Not gonna pry into what that may be...but you'll have a bf when you ALLOW yourself to have one.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

for me that includes hitting the clubs I'm focused on getting my health and money up

this is me just trying to get p*ssy not even trying to wife

I give up the chase

there's a chick who knows me well enough if she wants it she can come get it but other than that I'm not chasing on the street or in the clubs so there's no more nightlife for some time for me

 

[SunZoo]

I have one daughter. Been engaged a few times, but always got cold feet when I talked to men at my job who were in miserable marriages or who lost half their shyt and were now living in squalor due to choosing the wrong mate. shyt absolutely terrified me....

Damn breh. Don't look it at it like that. Keep the faith. When you're pushing 40 like we are, it's harder than ever to find a gem in all of these lumps of coal. Smh. All most of these chicks got to offer is attitude, bitterness, lies, and another nikkaz kids. There are rare gems out there and there's someone for everyone. I truly believe that.

This is disgusting behavior.

Not only are you a sad sack of shyt, but you got in this rut by listening to other men and being afraid...no terrorfied of THEIR experiences.

What kind of woman would encounter that kind of fragility and want to stick around? And I'm not trying to berate you fam...I just think it's concerning that you got so many people, some that aren't even nearly old enough to really know love to be giving up on it already....in here co-signing this bullshyt.

Not that there's a time limit on breaking free from this, but you're 38, I feel like letting these people co-sign and hype you up to fall further into the quick sand is me doing you a disservice.

 

[GrindMode]

but the coli told me that id be having fun a 38 fukkin foreign bytches

 

[Railroadpaid]

when u stop looking for it and expecting it, thats when it comes outta nowhere and bust u in your shyt. Work on you, money retirement career everything you want in loife and before u know it love of your life just pops up