Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[Swirv]

But seriously id be ok with no love, kids etc if it meant id be rich and buy all the things i want. im 20 but i realize people are slimey

Love yourself and the rest will come

 

[Poitier]

The nice and sweet begining of a relationship sure feels nice, but it's not real. If that's what you're looking for when you say you want a good woman then you should probably buy yourself a robot doll or something. Are you always sweet? I doubt it. Nobody is nice all the time. We're only human.

If you throw a person into the bushes at the first sign of them becoming comfortable enough around you to actually show you their true selves, then you don't love them. It's that simple. Your love doesn't have a name and a face and a heart, because it's not a person. You just love feeling good. Your love is as shallow as a puddle.

It's not about finding a good woman. It's not even about finding the right woman. I think it has more to do with your own mindset and your own ability to love a person. It's about getting to really know a person, and even after seeing all their flaws and annoyances still having the ability to lovingly glare at them and think to yourself "this is the kind of problem I want to keep in my life".

damn well said repped

this is why i hate cold approach dating and rather court women I know....everyone puts on mask and facades but I want women to know I'm flawed from jump and I like to know the type of woman I'm dealing with off rip so I know if her flaws are something I can live with.

but once again, this shyt is just specific to America/Western dating....I don't think the dating game is so deceitful and romanticized elsewhere.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'm not settling for just any ol woman .That's like eating fast food and ramen noodles everyday for rest of ya life.

 

[:-)]

Man if you're a 32 year old woman and just getting hit on you just might be in the guys league... bytch sit down... Be humble..

N*gga hush I'm surrounded by honkies and hood trash I'm way out of their league. Men out here where I'm at think they deserve you just because they have a penis. Instead of saying anything men just follow me and stare at me. I'm far from a hideous woman.


What your mouth.

 

[:-)]

"Everyone dat seen da leprechaun say yyeeeahhh!!!!!!!!!!!!" ......................

 

[fkthisgaysite]

I am jaded at 25. Done. No more.

And to be honest, it's getting dangerously close to me not being able to even understand how to be in a relationship, let alone wanting one.

But I can't see myself trusting anyone ever again Seen, been thru and done too much shyt mane. Ionno.

 

[Nature's Fury]

haven't gave up, but not actively looking...i'm still young and ain't no rush...i need to start improving a few things in my life first...

 

[Soundbwoy]

Im laid up with my cuckoo ex girlfriend, rather fukk with the devil i know than these entitled women in the dating game

This got weak

 

[MalikX]

#JadedGang

 

[im outchea]

Just got out of a year and a half long relationship. Looking back at it the relationship should have ended a year ago. We tried and tried and tried, to the point where it seemed forced. We probably had at least 100 sit down talks about what we both needed to improve from both ends. It seemed like any major event that happened in our lives only made our relationship worse. We even tried couples therapy towards the end. Moving in together after 2 months of dating was probably the biggest mistake ever. I honestly think I only stuck around so long hoping that she would change, and I was close with some members of her family.

Point is, take experiences from your past relationship and apply them towards your next. Know what you want before you commit and never put a relationship before YOURSELF.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

at 38? i guess if that was happening to me i would give up too. i'm 6 years removed from that scenario.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Just got out of a year and a half long relationship. Looking back at it the relationship should have ended a year ago. We tried and tried and tried, to the point where it seemed forced. We probably had at least 100 sit down talks about what we both needed to improve from both ends. It seemed like any major event that happened in our lives only made our relationship worse. We even tried couples therapy towards the end. Moving in together after 2 months of dating was probably the biggest mistake ever. I honestly think I only stuck around so long hoping that she would change, and I was close with some members of her family.

Point is, take experiences from your past relationship and apply them towards your next. Know what you want before you commit and never put a relationship before YOURSELF.

Yeah man. That's the worst. Wasting time and effort on someone who refuses to change or see the error of their ways. May I ask what her flaws and issues were?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This got weak

 

[im outchea]

Yeah man. That's the worst. Wasting time and effort on someone who refuses to change or see the error of their ways. May I ask what her flaws and issues were?

• She had a very closed mind.
  
• Shes 26 and has lived in the same 3 mile radius her entire life, which she refused to move out of (I moved 30 minutes away to her, for her.)
• Her mom lives very close who she runs to for every problem in her life.
• Has no ambition at all in life, and is content with living mediocre.
• Main hobby was smoking weed and shopping.
• Had to have everything her way, or there was major attitude and a fight always shortly followed.

She has a good heart, but can be a very nasty, rude person who honestly just brought me down overall.

 

[turbochef]

im listening to message in a bottle then scroll down to see this lmao repped. But yea op you not the only one i gave up too at least you jave a daughter im just gonna get a dog.