Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[Gonzo]

At least you've had a relationship that has produced you a child. I'm going to be 32 in November and I finally just got hit on.....but it was by the most hideous man I have ever seen in my life


I quickly walked away after trying to be nice

N*gga was so ugly he made C-Murder look like Idris Elba


First thing that came to mind was the dude with the f*cked up grill at 0:32 but ten times worse








Whatever you do don't give up. Your wife is out there!!!

Man if you're a 32 year old woman and just getting hit on you just might be in the guys league... bytch sit down... Be humble..

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Everthing is transactional
If your market value aint high enough
Biggest thing ive learned is dont try for shyt...i feel at this point even approaching is too much
If you aint that nikka and hoes aint throwing it at you
You are wasting your time
Just focus on something else...get a hobby or a passion

Yep. The 80-20 rule is in full effect now. If you're ugly or average looking, the hoes gon call you a creep and say it's street harassment.

 

[BigMan]

i'm not sure i believe in "love" per se but its plenty good women out there

find someone thats in school or has some goals in life

try dating outside your race


move, your city might be trash

i'm young tho so maybe the women i meet aren't completely jaded single mothers just yet

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Breh...
You project loss and loserdom....and wonder why that's what you attract....

Change the way you think...there are plenty good women out there...

Realize that a man of means and that thinks and values himself is the PRIZE...and you'll be just fine

 

[How Sway?]

This isnt directed at you OP.

But same nikkas whos always taking about the Coli females, trying to shyt on our relationships, in there crying about being old and alone

Meanwhile, I got a nikka that loves the fukk out of me He deserves some head.





Tomorrow tho. I'm tired today.

Got damn you're a keeper

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Oh no babe! Pls don't give up! Love feels amazing when it's right. Totally worth the potential heartache.

Don't let timelines deter u. People think it's a wrap once u get a certain age but it really depends on the person. To be honest, dating is better now in my 30s than it was in my 20s b/c men were the LAST thing on my mind and I was a late bloomer.

It happens when it's the right time and place. Don't rush it. Just put ur intentions and desires out there in the universe and continue doing ur thing until the right one gets caught up in the energy u put out living ur life! You got this!

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I haven't necessarily "given up on love" but there's realities I now understand that go against the grain of happily ever after.

I'm 24 and right now I'm trying to do things for my own life that should've been accomplished 3/4 years ago, so being selfish with my time is necessary and at the moment I could only find space for sex and decent conversation.

The reality is, I am not the type aesthetically to spark females' baseline feeling of lust, unless I put on like 30 pounds of muscle and take advantage of women who sexually stereotype brolic nikkas with roughness. Unless I'm going to deal with women who are 4/5's facial and not in any kind of shape (and still deal with womanly BS), which defeats the purpose of self-improvement and building, most of my sexual encounters will be transactional, whether straight P4P, or, particularly when/if I achieve my goals, some "arrangement"/sugar daddy type of deal.

I don't have the mental energy to juggle females now so I can imagine in 10 years I'd want to "settle down" but I also have no desire to give that security a ring and legally documented marriage gives women so I'd be wasting their time. I may then still be too goal-oriented to compromise and do things for the best interest of us as a couple. I'm not a pro athlete but the way Darelle Revis gambles on himself every time he's a free agent and demands his money is how I'd like to be with my pursuits. But you can't do that with a wife nagging you about feeding the babies.

I can only hope one of my infrequent sex sessions doesn't result in a child.

You drop crazy gems, breh. You should write a book.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

...you gon' regret that shyt...get ya money up and get a better lookin' broad...or upgrade your girl's face...but you and I know what she really looks like...

Spoiler

Nah breh money isn't the problem. My pockets on swole and I've been with the baddest of the bad. Problem is women have either been hurt so they play it close to the chest and don't open themselves up to the transformitive nature of love, or they're just hoes... or both.

In my experience, anyway.

 

[Shadow King]

You drop crazy gems, breh. You should write a book.

There's nothing to write about at least not on a biographical level

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I can't relate to older people that have given up so I'm not going to speak on that, but there's no excuse for people in their 20's to have given up. I wonder how many of you that are complaining basically wasted time and haven't put yourself out there enough. A lot of people that have given up on having a good relationship sound like they're just scared of taking an L and listen to too many bitter people online.

 

[DjBhaled]

Everthing is transactional
If your market value aint high enough
Biggest thing ive learned is dont try for shyt...i feel at this point even approaching is too much
If you aint that nikka and hoes aint throwing it at you
You are wasting your time
Just focus on something else...get a hobby or a passion

Faxxxxx

 

[Swirv]

Moist ass thread. Sounds like something women say.

 

[moonshine]

Yet another female got thrown into the bushes tonight. At this point I can almost predict the outcome with these women.

They all start off nice, sweet, and promising that they're "different" than the other women out there.

Then, like clockwork, their true selves emerge. When they get comfortable, upset, or tired of faking nice, they start showing how petty, argumentative, flaky, etc. they can truly be.

I'm 38 and getting. I'm becoming jaded and cynical when it comes to females. I'm sure there are good women out there, somewhere. But what are my chances of meeting them??

The nice and sweet begining of a relationship sure feels nice, but it's not real. If that's what you're looking for when you say you want a good woman then you should probably buy yourself a robot doll or something. Are you always sweet? I doubt it. Nobody is nice all the time. We're only human.

If you throw a person into the bushes at the first sign of them becoming comfortable enough around you to actually show you their true selves, then you don't love them. It's that simple. Your love doesn't have a name and a face and a heart, because it's not a person. You just love feeling good. Your love is as shallow as a puddle.

It's not about finding a good woman. It's not even about finding the right woman. I think it has more to do with your own mindset and your own ability to love a person. It's about getting to really know a person, and even after seeing all their flaws and annoyances still having the ability to lovingly glare at them and think to yourself "this is the kind of problem I want to keep in my life".

 

[Kairi Irving]

Moist ass thread. Sounds like something women say.

But seriously id be ok with no love, kids etc if it meant id be rich and buy all the things i want. im 20 but i realize people are slimey

 

[Ronnie Macho]

Nah breh money isn't the problem. My pockets on swole and I've been with the baddest of the bad. Problem is women have either been hurt so they play it close to the chest and don't open themselves up to the transformitive nature of love, or they're just hoes... or both.

In my experience, anyway.

I can agree...I think I want a chic with "culture" and "family tradition"...a few African wives to make a tribe with...and some concubines on the side...this is true nature...them African queens underatand...