jking23258
Pro
this is a damn shame
Yep. I have a similar story. I remember this one guy who I worked with a couple months ago at my old job. It was a long day at work and I didn't eat anything for a couple hours. I randomly said to this girl 'Ugh, I wish I could get an ice cap'. Immediately, this guy jumped into our conversation and was like, 'there's a Tim Horton store right around the corner do you want me to buy you one? I was like, 'uhhhhh it's okay. I can buy it myself.' He continued, 'no I'm serious. I was going there anyways. I might as well get one for you. So, I was like 'aight.' He came back with a large ice cappachino and was like, 'don't worry bout paying me back'. I'm pretty sure dude was feeling me bc ever since I left the job he's been messaging me bout meeting up and shyt even though I don't want to hang out with him.
lol @ a car, these fools trippin
nah i dont believe that crap
I honestly don't think there is a such thing as a permanent friend zone. If a woman is giving you that much attention, unless you are clearly gay, or have a visible birth defect, their is some wiggle room for you to get in there. It's just that guys accept this role and/or are too scared to find how what they have to do to elevate their status, so they never find out. Then end up allowing themselves to stay in the friendzone instead of climbing that ladder.
When I get friendzone I just play my role. Don't have time to be trying to break my way out, I just sit and chill. But while Im chilling I make it clear that Im a just friend when its time for us to go out. She paying for her own shyt, she will either drive, catch the bus or pay me for gas. She wanna talk or whatever, Im available if I feel like it. Put her on the back burner and fine someone else...even maybe her friends
Once you lay those rules down than its usually up to her to see whats up. Some chicks will respect that while others will get mad but fukk it. The ones that respect it are usually the kind of women that know what they want, while the ones that get mad are usually confuse since theyre used to men still trying to holla and give them shyt.
In my opinion the only way to break out the friendzone is to friendzone the woman, simple as that. Don't fukking pamper them, dont get mad at them, just keep it neutral. Keep that up long enough and you wont give a fukk anymore if you fukk or not. If she's ya friend than check out her friends. If her friends are cute then holla. Once that happens she may feel some type of way and act out accordingly. Pull it off right you might be able to fukk the friend and her without them even knowing it. But this is essential for the first month tho, if you fukked around and pampered her with your time and gifts than take your L and keep it moving cause her friends may think that your soft.
Final rule is you most know when to cut you loses, I mean shyt if your like them guys in that pic than god help. But if you follow these rules then the Ls wont phase you, easy come easy go. Dont get hung up on the girl, just put her on the back burner, treat her like a friend, not like a potential girlfriend and you will be alright. You wouldnt lose shyt and you might gain something.
Or you can just say fukk it and find someone else...the choice is always yours
If dudes in the friend zone are losing so bad.....why don't dudes want their girlfriends to have male friends?