nikka, when I made it official wit my lady, I told other females "bytch, I cant talk to u no more.Lose my number!"
dudes really settin themselves up for a L in here. Like WTF is wrong with nikkas today. And you wonder why relationships/marriages aint what it used to be. There is no bopundries. There used to be a certain respect that couples had for each other. Y'all let these women today bamboozle you into thinking you are a better man/secure man if you allow them to randomly hang out with male friends. 
at you simp nikkas. Y'all part of the reason there aren't as many of value today.
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There aren't many reasons that you should be hanging with anyone of the opposite sex to go to the movies,dinner to the mall whatever(Mayby if they are gay/lesbian or your relative). I dont care how long yall been friends. Theres a good chance there is something there and U.E.N.O. or you dont realize it. If your a female and your somewhat attractive i bet your male friend will fukk in a heartbeat so quit being naive. I'll damn near bet anything on it.
It aint about being secure its about being in a comfortable relationship where yall respect each other enough to not put yourselves in those situations. If yall out in the club there is nothing wrong with saying Hi or having casual talk. It's a public forum. But if you guys are planning private encounters then thats crossinging the line
im reading this shyt and dudes in here talking bout they dont wanna control their women. It's expected for the females to have a rebellious attitude but the men
. It's control now to set boundries in a relationship? It's control now for you to respect each other and not put yourself in a situation that is very likely to fail? How many times does this "male friend" have to come at you sideways to get the point? How many times has that nikka expressed his true feelings for you? How many times that nikka try to catch you slipping at a weak point? at some of these answers .
and throw her in the bushes ASAP. If she can't trust me, and is so paranoid/insecure that she'd ask me to throw away some of my most loyal friends, the relationship probably wouldn't have lasted very long anyway....and I'd expect the same reaction from a girl if I ever asked her to stop having platonic male friends.
. THAT is just disrespectful to her relationship, and if someone is crossing lines like that, their partner would be perfectly reasonable in asking them to end contact with that person
Are you guys good with your lady havin male friends? Or is that a complete no no? I mean what's wrong with a harmless male friend?
Are u insecure at all?
This and most of my friends regardless of gender get ghost when they got a SO if the relationship worth anything. I thought this was how,it was done guess not? Yeah if it's not a group outing out of respect for dude I don't even hit them up like that except during bdays or inviting them out with they SO. That's true friend shyt to me knowing when to let your friends breathe not no I need my friend that much like them cats a fukking security blanket. Nah son I ain't with that regardless of gender do you we'll link up when we do if not enjoyed the good times we had.
i dont go thru my husbands phone so it wont happen
