threattonature
Veteran
I think a lot of people are genetically predisposed to gaining weight. They have to be.
Personally, I've never weighed over maybe 160. Was scrawny as a kid too. Haven't gained weight since college (I'm 5'9), and I weigh maybe 150 right now. I've never been on a diet in my life and don't exercise that much. Plus, I have a desk job where I'm sitting all day.
According to you guys I should weigh 300lbs, so I figure it has to be genetic. Not that I don't think people should make every attempt to be healthy, but I really do think a lot of people lost the genetic lottery.
The question is just what types of foods are you eating? Somebody hit the nail on the head talking about eating to live and not living to eat. Too many people use food to equate happiness. Which leads into a dangerous spiral sense the foods that can make you happy are often unhealthy and leads to weight gain. Which leads to more unhappiness and more comfort foods.
I was never fat until I got an office job but was always wondering why I couldn't drop weight considering how much basketball I used to play. Then got an office job and stopped playing ball and gained like 30 pounds in about 3-4 months. Finally over the last year while trying to get in shape started counting calories and looking at the shyt I was eating and it's easy as hell to see exactly why I was gaining so much weight. I was easily taking in over 4000 calories a day some days. Most people that I know that are overweight that are trying to lose first thing I ask are what foods they are eating. A lot of times people think they're eating healthy and taking in crazy calories. Plus there are tons of foods with high calorie content that people don't realize. It really is an unhealthy culture and a damn shame you have to actively monitor what you eat to stay in shape. Some have higher metabolisms than others. Big fukking deal. If you're one of those people with a low metabolism then adjust.
And I'm saying all this as someone that's still in the process of trying to lose. I was up 285 at one point. Sitting at 245 and still losing.