I almost today with the woman I've been talking to. Im grocery shopping and she hits me with her son is gone until 4 this is around 12. She's stressing she is so bored while washing and folding. I finish shopping and go home then it dawned on me to ask to come over. The rest is history but that subtle shyt almost flew over my head.
moral of the story....."keep your head in the game"
women want to be in the position of suggesting, but if things go wrong then blaming you for it without taking much blame if any....