A lot of them don't fam. A lot of men's concept of rape is blatant, Ted Bundy shyt, a lot of them don't see the 'blurred lines' and shades of gray when it comes to to the topic.
Which is why she had to reduce it to such seemingly absurd, clear cut terms. Like EVEN IF all of this happens and everything is AG, if I say stop, stop. If you think that doesn't puzzle if not infuriate the average man as to not only why a woman might do that, but also why they would be expected to actually stop then you're overestimating the temperament of the type of men that need that explanation. I'm happy that it seems like common sense to you because it should be, but a lot of guys need it spelled out for them and even then you have fukking morons talking about raping "for the culture".
In these high profile cases, there is no grey area. These dudes are harassing, raping and assaulting.
The problem with this whole "conversation" is that so much mudslinging has gone on that, yes, Amanda Seales should be able to say what she is saying. But, she also should be able to see that there is still a conversation to be had as that is an alarming situation for a man to be in, also. I don't want to think the entire exchange caused her pain when it started as consentual.
But, all men are dogs, so we just need to learn to take our dirty dikks out of women when they say "stop/no." Meanwhile, you've got men who now think rape has never happened ever in history because the truth is, they don't find themselves putting undue pressure on women, sexually and they are responding to women making rape out to be a daily, individual occurrence from 90% prepetrauted by 95% of men.
The whole thing has gotten out of control. And it's crazy to see messageboard logic reaching the real world.
I think situations like this lead to the in-fighting between women on this issue. You got assault victims who've been kidnapped, beaten, then raped looking at another woman who just decided midway into sex (that she consented to) that she didn't want to do it like
Like seriously, in a world where people doubt victims of more extreme rape cases... how do you think "I told him to stop after 7 strokes" is gonna hold up in the court of public opinion? There are too many scenarios where this gets gray.
All in all, rape is not handled well at all by the criminal justice system.
So, I don't mind putting it all in the same box. But, women like Amanda Seales are turning rape allegations into power plays.
Of course there is context like @SunZoo brought up. In a hypothetical situation a woman may have really been triggered as the penetration started. But, again, she's a fukking troll and knew the reaction she would get trivializing rape.
7 strokes GTFOH