should this thread be stickied?
WASN'T REALLY THAT BAD REALLY.70 pages? i know the coli so i know the topic of this thread has changed atleast a dozen times...with the usual arguing and finger pointing etc ad nauseum
if you fall into the pitfalls of being simp charming.
then, not knowing marriage and divorce law and move like it,....
a bytch can change you.
nikkaz, delussional as hell thinking they just good.
after females, be taking the fifty percent they were supposed to provide.
yet, simp charming, provided the whole hunid.
then, simp charming is crushed and runs to the internet.
when, you supposed to be developing.
not falling for none of those pitfalls in your gen.
if you are in this gen, and you not ramped up to what's to it.
given all the information, most shun.
then, you get hit with this epiphany of damn,...da fukk, just fukk happened't and shyt.
later on down the line and in your gen, i am only giving you to twenty five.
since you know so much already in this gen..
yet, can't rap, but that's another discussion.
anyway,...if you ain't got it by twenty five in y'all gen,..
nikka you flabby and sick,.....
you right at the age pac criticized dela for in 96, with age inflation to make up the difference.
the shyt is out there to know what's to it and get more.
so, if you don't and plus you listen to rap, and don't have knowledge of self, and part of that is knowing this shyt.
chu flabby and sick, my nikka.
art barr
That's why women value decisiveness in a man. Their opinions are easily swayed, which is why they love a man who is firm and decisive. It's also a reflection of their general lack of self-confidence. People with low self-confidence/self-esteem are usually pretty indecisive.
exactly
its like broken telephone here potato soup was mentioned once and now suddenly it turned into a wevery day or week occourence.
I've had hamburger helper, mac and cheese, them walmart chicken and potato wedges, left over pizza from chicks for dinner.
For all we know potato soup was his thing and he made a killer potato soup and she loved it. But now there not together its potato soup
I'm reading the words of many a lame on this thread
N#ggas speaking fluent Cupcakish
Ol' she made me take her Ruth Chris for our first date a## n#ggas
I have no problem doing nice things for people including a woman I'm getting serious with. But that is MY choice....not hers....not her friends....not her family. MINE and MINE alone.
I do fly sh#t cuz I like doing fly sh#t....never to impress a chick. That's how lames are made....doing sh#t to impress a female when females are more populous than grass. That's why these chicks feel comfortable sticking their hands in dudes' pockets now.
That's the difference between real dudes and lames. Real dudes do what they want and have a chick tag along. Lames find out what might impress the chick and then do that....hoping it works. I'd rather be a real dude by myself than a lame with a stable of b#tches he's paying for.
Dude wanted to eat potato soup and watch documentaries. And that's what he was going to do....whether she was there or not. So, when she tried to play that dumb b#tch sh#t, it didn't even alter his mood. He just kicked her out, ate some soup and watched the documentary
This chick, like some others, thought her p#ssy gave her the right to dictate how this man spent his money. I don't get where these chicks come from and what type of dudes they date, but that is delusional. Where in the world can you tell someone how they're going to spend their money?
Yea, dude might've been boring and lived a Spartan lifestyle. But this b#tch knew that from the door. Only when she started focusing more on her friends than her dude did she start to feel like she was losing out. Like I always tell chicks: "don't let your friends get you out of your spot."
Chick got what she deserved. Dude wasn't even thirsty for p#ssy either
Peace
I just feel so low right now. If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her? He said he "saw me in his future", why didn't he care enough to share these things with me? He could have easily kept our relationship alive by being forthcoming. Someone please help me make sense of this situation.
Exactly... What is ONE thing she stated that she did for him? There's a reason rich people don't tell people they have money, and one of the closing lines in her post is the prime reason why.
When you have it and people know it, they think they can choose how and when they are going to be treated on your tab. You both are in a restaurant and they just expect you to pay because you got the money. "You have alll that money and you're not going to pay for both of us?"
Yup. Stunt for the 'Gram then complain when people look at you like a meal ticket, brehs. This is exactly why you should keep your wealth a secret. My bank account is my business and if I choose not to divulge in that, that's my choice. Especially if I bust my ass through whatever I had to do to get the money I have now. People going "But he didn't earn it!" So what? People buy lotto tickets all the time, hoping they win. Raffles too, but on a smaller scale. So if you went to a wedding social and you won a TV, you gonna feel bad because you didn't earn it? Let anyone hating on Will come across some big money right now and people find out, bet anything they'll change their tune.
Also, to me it doesn't even seem like he was even necessarily living off of his inheritance. According to how he was living, it was easily possible that he was earning enough to be 'self-sufficient'.. Driving a car from the 90s, so thus no car note and low insurance, not buying the latest fashions, meaning more savings, and just living a generally frugal lifestyle. He wasn't into keeping up with the Joneses. She was.
I don't fault her for leaving because she felt she wanted a different avenue in life, but when you take that gamble, sometimes you end up losing. In this case, she lost.
I'm willing to bet he purposely didn't want to spend his inheritance money. He's frugal, yet has the means to live large and extravagant. So to me, he either A) knows and understands the value of a dollar, or B) he's wanting to come up on his own. Both answers are commendable, and both also show more wisdom and ambition than it would appear on the surface. He DID say he was working on websites. Those could've been freelance jobs where he was requested by huge companies to do. He probably didn't want to say anything, because he thought she might get the Wall Street morning bell stuck in her head. Which is a logical and understandable concern. Things are never what they appear to be. We'll never know because Will hasn't said his side, and I doubt he'd even care to.
She left, and she did nothing wrong.... the only time she did wrong, is getting upset when Will did have money, then going online to rant about it. If she had decided that "Well, it's too late now. " then that would've been it. It's a loss because she wanted to beat her Facebook Friends and wound up with nothing.
As you get older, you realize how dumb all of the stuff that you bought was and you'd much rather have that money. A lot of people would be living way more comfortably if they took the money they bought on shoes, clothes, entertainment, flashy car, jewelry, etc., and would have invested it. They might have missed out on some memories, but it is what it is. I don't blame him one bit for being frugal. All the women can think he is a loser while he doesn't have to feel the pressure of working a job that he hates. One of the lovely things about living frugally is that you can survive when times are great and when times get thinner.
Of course basic morality and honesty escapes you. More often than not religion and treating people decently dont have any tangible relationship. He manipulated her by giving off a clear impression that he was financially unambitious and disinterested in mobility and treating his well. If hes insecure about how people will respond to him based on his wealth thats his own issue, he doesnt need to drag innocent people into his lil dumb ass social experiments in order to waste their time and fukk with their mind.
Sure, not disclosing your financial standing when you initially meet someone is reasonable, but toying with someone for close to a year is immoral and cruel. People want to mock this girl, but the flipside is he probably lost out on a good girl by being a maladaptive dishonest fukkboi.
I have Facebook and am on it every day, usually when work is slow.
He sat and listened to everything, seemingly unmoved by it. When I finished talking, he said "fine by me"
at these small minded symposium style exchanges from simps in here using this isolated instance to debate a general topic in favour of the scorned sket.
As for the quoted what a load of horse bollocks..... I'm only a 1/3rd of the way through this thread & there's probably no new opinion or 'THOT' I can add to this long ass thread that hasn't probably been heavily discussed
Serious question, do you ever tire from regurgitating that tiring Damsel In Distress style defensive posting of yours?
Get a new gimmick fam, this one has seriously long lost its novelty
Chill on Facebook All day everyday & expect to not to catch the 'green eyed monster' my hormonal brehettes
Such a stupid girl....bless her naivety in its envious entirety
I can just imagine him on some non chalant vibe , staring at his watch all abstract like like are you done spewing ? when are you going to stop talking & get to walking babe' These potatoes ain't gonna peel themselves plus I got a solo guitar practice to get to
Anyway to conclude I'll end this with a proverbial saying;
'Money Talks & Bullshiiiiit which in this case was in form of a 26 year old resentfully sounding female walked'
Okay, so you're ugly, you're a virgin (or you have very limited experience with women), and you're anti social. Coo'...what the fukk do you want me to do about it exactly?