No its not man
SO IN 10 MONTHS ARE YOU fukkING?
No its not man
One of the reasons I hate dating is because I feel like everything depends on me......I have to plan the date, pay for the date, drive, pick her up......In reality I'm legit happy just chilling most of the time.
She did the right thing. He didn't keep it 100 with her.
If you are a man looking for something of substance good luck breh good luck.
Besides her vagina and beauty what are most women offering? How are they adding to your life positively?
There is no reward at the end
I'LL TAKE THAT AS A YES. SO YOU GONNA WAIT FOR THE BABY TO FIND OUT WHAT YOUR GIRL PLANS TO DO WITH HER LIFE?
The next time I was over at Will's (after he served me potato soup for dinner and was torrenting a documentary for us to watch later) I ended the relationship.
I'm gonna be honest here, breh, I legit don't know what the hell you're talking about. One of the coli's great mysteries is how folks on here hold conversations with you.
I'll just reiterate that men playing an act for 10 months and then doing a complete 180 is complete fantasy. He was living that frugal lifestyle 24/7 when she was there and when she wasn't around. His friend corroborated his cheapness. He wasn't waiting for some special date to start spoiling her, he just plain didn't believe in spending like that.
I'm surprised how she mentioned all of his clothes are at least 1-2 years old and not come to any conclusions.
Matter fact, I'm surprised she couldn't make any solid observation that he may not be as broke as he leads on.
I mean, clothes are really new. Drives old car. Owns an old house. Works on a few websites AND is a session guitarist. What part of that would allude to him being penniless? You can't be broke and live like that in an older home when you got bills and mortgage payments to worry about. Also, let's not forget there's car insurance payments and gas to focus on, too. Actually, speaking of the car... from what she was saying, this is what he's whipping around in:
She made it sound like dude is driving a bucket that he bought at the junkyard for a quarter. Even down to the website money, who's to say the web money wasn't long? On average it's not much, but not everyone is the norm, there's exceptions in every bunch.
If she wanted a man with drive and purpose, fine. Nothing wrong with that, in fact, that's something you should be looking for in a partner. Among other things. But my ONLY issue is that she feels upset because he was richer than he led on, and she's 'confused'... which all spawned off of her being envious of her friends on facebook. The truth is, he had money but didn't feel like spending it, and her jealousy got the better of her. That's how it goes. On to the next one.
I'LL TAKE THAT AS A YES. SO YOU GONNA WAIT FOR THE BABY TO FIND OUT WHAT YOUR GIRL PLANS TO DO WITH HER LIFE?
She wanted to be able to hop on social media and one-up her friends.
The fact that she learned that he was wealthy, after the fact, eats her up. She realizes she could have actually one-upped her friends on Facebook. Which is why Will "not sharing" and "not treating" her is mind-boggling to her.
As much as woman talk about men wanting "trophy" wives, women want "trophy" men more than anything else. It doesn't matter what type of man he is. If he can help boost her standing among her friends and social circle, she'll deal with him. They want someone they can parade in front of their friends. Her friends' jealousy over her locking him down is the ultimate self-esteem boost for a chick.
Some of these chicks are even paying for it: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...artners-cosmetic-surgery-look-better-arm.html
If she wanted Will to be a trophy, she could have invested some money in him!