I love how you switched this around. You almost had me going with you there.
1) Not everyone who has money has to live like Beyonce and Jay-Z. Life doesn't stop after 40.
2) He didn't "trust" her enough or he was waiting to see where things went? He didn't hide it for 10 years, this is someone he didn't know existed 11 months ago. I wouldn't tell someone of my wealth after knowing them for 10 months either.
3) She IS a gold digger. Her sole reason for leaving was money. She chose money over love. He had both for her.
4) She didn't leave because he didn't prove to her he was serious about building with her. She left because she was more influenced by the relationship statuses on her facebook feed than her own. It was fine until face poisoned her mind.
5) It's winning because he can upgrade financially, and physically. And doesn't have to share that money with anyone.