nikkas change, period.
a 27 year old man with no kids will one day turn into a 35 year old man with kids and a family that he'll want to see happy, and he'll spend it. She lost.
who's said she wants to wait until 35 to have a kid?
There's too many gaps in this story to make a full summary on how their relationship got to the point it did. She had a right to leave him if she saw over a period of 10 months that this dude wasn't gonna change who he was. She saw what he was about from the gate and in being with him for 10 months, she was fine with that.She wants back in when she finds out he has money. Here's the thing... What would have changed if they would've gotten back together? Would he start opening his wallet? Or would he have done the same thing he was doing that caused the breakup? I don't think anything would have changed and she would've been left feeling even more frustrated with him than she was the first time she broke up with him. That relationship was over the minute she realized she wanted more than what he was offering and the perceived happiness of her friends on facebook. Nothing would have kept that relationship together.
exactly, both of them won in the end because they arent compatible in the long run.
1) She's low maintenance? How so? What caused her to leave her man was a friend buying her THIRD property. Not her first. Her third. She's defined by $$.
2) Why should he have to fake shyt? They were in a relationship for 10 months. Not even a year and you down his throat about his pockets. I mean?
3) No, any woman who will leave a man after 10 months of perceiving that he's broke and then regretting it and wanting to go back is a gold digger. There are women who stick it out with broke nikkas until they make it, she ain't even have to do that.
4) They were dating 10 MONTHS. The fukk? what she thought they were getting married after a year or someting? And there you women go talkng about nikkas like they're pets and objects and shyt. Just a vessel to transport you to wherever you think you need to be in life to appease your friends and family. You aint mention love once. First thing you said What the fukk is wrong with some of you women? First job is to meet a nikka you like and fall in love, not "give me babies and money" y'all all got the game fukked up, all the way upp. This is 2014, not 1950. Women well into their 40s are having kids no problem. Stop looking for excuses B'ette. You don't decide when you have kids, a couple decides when they have kids.
5) If her eggs dry up, thats on her. Because she fukked up in thinking that you're entitled to certain shyt after 10 months. He'll find someone worth being with. Plenty of women will be into him. No one wants a woman who's main focus is $$
1. she wants to own her own home = defined by money?
2. she wasnt down his pockets, she wanted to know if he was on track to be financially stable.
asking someone you're in a serious relationship with their future plans is intrusive now?
3. She left after she couldnt get an answer to her questions. No man or woman over 25 should waste time in an unsure relationship. He a grown man that should be able to articulate what he wants out of life instead of keep saying " I wanna be witchu" as a response every time.
4. IDK what she thought, but she has a right to know whether or not its in the cards. She's 26 not 16.
Nah, i think she is ready to start a family or at least prepare for one. Thats what adults do, plan. Kids arent cheap so its good to plan ahead and be on the same page.
They were in love, but love dont pay the bills. you need to be on the same page and have similar life trajectory to maintain a successful relationship.
She simply wanted to know if he wanted the same life/lifestyle that she wanted and he clearly didnt.
yeah, women with $$$ to freeze their eggs.
what person with a 9-5 wants to wait until the are damn near retirement age to have kids?
i would want to be damn near done with raising my kid/s at that point.
you right if she wouldve stayed with him with no future in site, it wouldve been on her that her eggs dried up.
5. Yeah HE would be alright either way because he is rich and a man. he doesnt have to worry about fertility issues because he can always find someone to have a kid/ relationship with him.
that's your Male privilege talking.
. I tell them up front who I am and that I'm not gonna change. They agree, attempt to change me, then get upset that I kept my word.
No proof huh? Put it out there since you already know.
" type shyt. Then she got upset when she found it he was rich.
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