nikkas will shyt on a chick ENDLESSLY for foolishly trying to change a man, yet they're in here acting like she could've/should've tried to change him
like after 1 year she bout to walk through the door and he standing there on some
nikkas will shyt on a chick ENDLESSLY for foolishly trying to change a man, yet they're in here acting like she could've/should've tried to change him
Exactly, dude had every sign of the type of dude that chicks get blasted for choosing on here. If she got pregnant, she would be a dumbass for being attracted to a bum with no life goals and likely being a single parent, but because he had some super secret stash, dude's now a catch.nikkas will shyt on a chick ENDLESSLY for foolishly trying to change a man, yet they're in here acting like she could've/should've/would've changed him
I tell you what, guys.
Don't have a job but pay all your bills in the house you live in alone.
Tell a woman you "run a couple of websites, do some guitar gigs every so often".
let someone see you doing this shyt for a year.
Watch how quickly somebody assumes you're selling drugs or you got money stashed away.
She's dancing around the shyt, but she summed it up nicely when she asked isn't someone with disposable income supposed to spend it on a woman.
Then after she found out he actually HAD money, she tried to get back with him.
If she never found out he had money, her post would've ended "I hate I wasted 10 months on this guy and it never went anywhere."
But knowing he has money, even if he doesn't spend it, is enough for her to try running back.
You really gotta throw bread crumbs on the ground to keep pigeons coming back.
I'm referring to those who say he's doing fine by not doing much because he already has money.How do you know what this guy is or isn't doing though? We've only heard from this girl's side of the story. Who knows what those websites he was working on are for. Who knows what he's really doing.
What?
she didnt miss out on anything, THAT IS HIS MONEY!
He is extremely FRUGal so i highly doubt they would be living like jay z and beyonce more like Jason and Kelly Pitts.
he has millions he aint willing to spend on his self so i highly doubt he'd spend it on her seeing as he doesnt even trust her enough to tell her about it.
he let a woman he genuinely saw a future with who isnt a gold digger walk out of his life because he didnt prove that he was serious about building a life with her.
how is that winning?
She started questioning the relationship after she went on facebook because her friends were getting married
For the people here defending her saying it's all about "different life outlooks and not money" would have a point IF she didn't get all upset and crying about him not telling her that he had guap.
If she said "well it doesn't matter, I still wouldn't be with him because he's not ambitious" and k.i.m. then fine, but she acting all betrayed exposed her true character.
She richly deserves being fed to the wolves.
No, breh. I'm just using @KenyaDoll as an example of a regular chick doing homework for two years.
These naive brehs think these golddiggers aren't putting in even more work?
Smh...
Some of y'all so hurt from women.
Yall really want a partner who just agrees with you, does everything you like without complaining, basically a robot or personal slave?
Man I want a woman who challenges me, helps me become a better person...like my wife. If I acted like Will and didn't show her security, I woulnd have married her. She didn't choose me because I'm ballin (im not) she married me because she saw my potential, she saw that I could provide for her and my family and keep her secure. She works and makes more than me, but i could give her that security that I can handle whatever comes up. I was very nonchalant like Will, but not to that extreme, but my wife helped me get focused and actually challenged me to do more, not to settle...
All I'm saying is, I want a woman that wants the best for me. That cares about her future and is not dating for "fun" anymore. Not wasting time being with a cat who says they see you in their future, but is happy with "the way things are." Women wanna be married start families and whatnot, it's not a surprise...
I guess I'm a simp because I can see it from her perspective without making her "a bad person" she wasn't completely right in this, neither was Will. Some good communication would've helped. She would've seen he wasn't about that marriage and family game and he could've seen she wanted more than he was willing to put up with...but yall up here saying she has bad relationships with all her old boyfriends like yall know her! Lol...
Neg me, call me simp whatever...but in the real world people wanna see something...not just potato soup, guitars and Netflix....all the married men up in here know, if you have a wife and won't spend a penny on her (because you think she's a gold digger) you won't be married for long. My wife is far from a gold digger but if I don't do nice things for her (not just financially) I wont have her for long and I don't blame her...she spoils me and will eventually carry and raise my children. I love her and want to do nice things for her
My HTML game is and I still make decent money as a side hustle