Drive to do what?
Dump a nikka for being broke not realizing he's actually rich Brehettes
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KenyaDoll
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to not be complacent in life.
The L comes from breaking up with a guy she loved because she wanted to live that life she saw her friends on facebook living.
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Everybody got their own version of "happiness".
Dude played guitar, managed websites, and chilled for the most part. Shiet, if he played video games all day then yeah, he's straight up bum status.
But getting paid to play guitar is a dream for a lot of guys. Probably getting groupie action to boot
bytch is just upset cause he didn't flaunt the superficial shyt she equates with having wealth
KenyaDoll
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She reached out to him before she found out about his money.
There's nothing twisted about wanting be with a guy with drive.
I just can't agree with the notion that he misled her. He truly is a guy with no drive; he's in cruise control. If she was ok with that, she should've never left. If she isn't ok with that, she shouldn't want him back.
I never said he mislead her and she never said she wanted him back.
We don't know how much this dude made from websites either. I've repeated it several times, but 'making websites' can make you a ton of money if you know what you're doing. Look up salaries for Ruby on Rail developers or front-end developers and see for yourself.
Given his lifestyle, he very well could have been self-sufficient, especially given his frugal habits, while stashing away his oil checks. People are calling him a bum, but at least he's living within his means if that's the case. If you have no car note and minimize your expenditures on things such as the latest clothes and gadgets, you can save a ton of money.
If she felt that he was unambitious and a bum and wanted better for herself, that's fine... but don't change your tune when you learn of his inheritance because he's still that so-called unambitious bum. In that case, it's not about 'ambition'... it's about how much money he has to spend on you.
Money means different things to different people. For a lot of people, it's a means to purchase materials, whether it be clothes, cars, etc. For others it's a means to control your time and not have to punch a clock and to be able to spend your time how you see fit. A lot of people would seem unambitious if they had say $9,000 coming in every month which they were free to do as they saw fit with... why? Because they'd be living life how the wanted as opposed to punching the clock at some job they hate.
She's not wrong for leaving. She's wrong for slandering this dude, but trying to run back once she learned he had cash. He was this super cheapskate, but she enjoyed dating him until she saw what her 'girls' supposedly had... and then the current deal wasn't enough. He's this lazy bum, so why does she want to go back? Can anyone tell me how having an inheritance magically changes all of these supposed flaws in characters, which were flaws she saw as perfectly acceptable until she started looking on facebook and judging what she had based upon what she perceives her friends to be doing?
Given his lifestyle, he very well could have been self-sufficient, especially given his frugal habits, while stashing away his oil checks. People are calling him a bum, but at least he's living within his means if that's the case. If you have no car note and minimize your expenditures on things such as the latest clothes and gadgets, you can save a ton of money.
If she felt that he was unambitious and a bum and wanted better for herself, that's fine... but don't change your tune when you learn of his inheritance because he's still that so-called unambitious bum. In that case, it's not about 'ambition'... it's about how much money he has to spend on you.
Money means different things to different people. For a lot of people, it's a means to purchase materials, whether it be clothes, cars, etc. For others it's a means to control your time and not have to punch a clock and to be able to spend your time how you see fit. A lot of people would seem unambitious if they had say $9,000 coming in every month which they were free to do as they saw fit with... why? Because they'd be living life how the wanted as opposed to punching the clock at some job they hate.
She's not wrong for leaving. She's wrong for slandering this dude, but trying to run back once she learned he had cash. He was this super cheapskate, but she enjoyed dating him until she saw what her 'girls' supposedly had... and then the current deal wasn't enough. He's this lazy bum, so why does she want to go back? Can anyone tell me how having an inheritance magically changes all of these supposed flaws in characters, which were flaws she saw as perfectly acceptable until she started looking on facebook and judging what she had based upon what she perceives her friends to be doing?
How so?
He avoided getting in a long term commitment with a superficial woman who seemed too concerned with keeping up with the Joneses
He's still gonna live his musician/web development easy life. Looking for the right girl who'll live the same easy lifestyle
She's looking for a guy with big ambition. Those cats typically cheat on their wives because they're never satisfied. She'll be a divorced single mom by the age of 40
you'd stay with a chick who wont work , play piano all day and made nacho's every night if she was a millionaire ? ..even if you wasnt getting a cut ? thats on you
there's plenty other women out there not on the kid shyt and will try to grow with you.KenyaDoll
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Everybody got their own version of "happiness".
Dude played guitar, managed websites, and chilled for the most part. Shiet, if he played video games all day then yeah, he's straight up bum status.
But getting paid to play guitar is a dream for a lot of guys. Probably getting groupie action to boot
That's why I think she made the right choice. You should date and be with people who have similar visions and lifestyles.
Me and that guy could never work out. I would get tired of seeing him laying on the couch all day everyday.
Turk
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He's already rich though. If he wanted to live more extravagantly......he could......... it's not like he doesn't have the money......he just doesn't want to
She didn't reach out to him. She tried to 'be cool' with him and keep the lines of communication open, probably akin to a deal she gave her other exs. She'll chill with them every once in a while, but not claim them. Once she found he was moneyman, then was the relationship worth saving.
The guy was getting quarterly checks more then most people get anually. He was basically in retirement mode.
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you'd stay with a chick who wont work , play piano all day and made nacho's every night if she was a millionaire ? ..even if you wasnt getting a cut ? thats on you
Are you asking me if I would stay with a chick who wasn't a dumb bird obssessed with superficial shyt, attractive, managed websites, played the piano, and was great to be with? The fukk kind of question is this?
I have my own career breh.
Are you asking me if I would stay with a chick who wasn't a dumb bird obssessed with superficial shyt, attractive, managed websites, played the piano, and was great to be with? The fukk kind of question is this?
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