I'm not saying anything about good or bad people... im talking your own quality of life... its healthy to be on good terms with people who played a role in your life.
im not talking girls u went on 3 dates with and shyt.... but if you date someone for 10 months... you obviously had some fun together and for better or worse they are part of your growth and shyt...
You could atleast take 1 hour to sit down have coffee and hash things out... I guarantee you'll feel better off for it.
It's true that as I've gotten older I have taken positive things from past relationships.
And I've never had a bad breakup.
But my conscience is clear. I don't feel any guilt or bad feelings over things that didn't work out. And I've been that guy that basically said "Okay, cool" and stopped communicating.
Rather than women seeking closure from a man, she should just move on and realize what she has learned about HERSELF in the relationship. It doesn't really mean anything what his feelings are about her or any of that shyt. Because what he feels about her isn't going to help her in any meaningful way.
What's going to help her is realizing that money and having luxuries is a bigger part of her needs than she thought. And I'm not going to get into calling her a gold digger.
But her understanding who she is...and what matters to her most....is a greater lesson for self-growth than this man explaining himself.