Dump a nikka for being broke not realizing he's actually rich Brehettes

[MikelArteta]

Yup women emotionally detach, talk to the wolfpack, and many times than not have their eyes on a new guy set up. The backup, the new guy at work the ex.

I could love a woman and if she dumps me that's it she will never hear from me again, I'll never give a woman who demoted me a iota of my time nor will she be privy to my emotions.

If a woman says she wants to break up with me, I'm assuming she hasn't cared about me FOR A LONG TIME.
And when have you ever seen a woman change her feelings? I'm not gonna bawl out crying or get angry. Why give her that satisfaction? Is she going to stay with me then?
No. She just wants something to hold over my head, on some "Yeah, he still wants me" type shyt that she can make Instagram memes and talk shyt to her girlfriends about.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Only women will agree with you.

It pains women when a guy doesn't go down fighting for them.

Sorry your not that special

well if they person isnt special why were you with them in the first place? seems like you should be the one to end it not them. yea it might be women who only agree with me. So what?

If a woman says she wants to break up with me, I'm assuming she hasn't cared about me FOR A LONG TIME.
And when have you ever seen a woman change her feelings? I'm not gonna bawl out crying or get angry. Why give her that satisfaction? Is she going to stay with me then?
No. She just wants something to hold over my head, on some "Yeah, he still wants me" type shyt that she can make Instagram memes and talk shyt to her girlfriends about.

one minute yall say women cant make up their mind. now you are saying they we never change our mind. Which is it with you men?

 

[kevm3]

Look at this

If a woman dumps me why the hell would I care?

Were no longer a item, what you want me to beg please give me another chance teedot I'll change, sob in a MMS video, send flowers?




Lol at this brehs because he didn't cry and grovel but instead severed all ties when HE WAS DUMPED he doesn't care.

Women Logic

Even when they dump you they want you to act like a simp and pour your heart out Even though they have no intention of taking you back.

This is why I always say if you are dumped say nothing and cease all contact never give these thots the "closure" they desire.

Its amazing how a woman can dump you and you accept it and get on with your life and it bothers her she can't manipulate or emotikablly pull your strings anymore

man if he got crying she definitely wouldn't have wanted to have been back. she would have clowned that dude and put him up on worldstar if there was video evidence. she would have walked off with a smile on her face like "I still got it." If she would have cared about him and HIS emotions, she wouldn't have just jumped ship due to a self dialogue.

 

[MikelArteta]

Why should he show emotion?

If you get called into the office right now and are told your being let go, security will escort you out.

Although it may hurt losing your job you think IMA kick and scream get angry ask why?

No this decision was made long in advance and nothing I do will change the outcome so I'll go maintain my dignity and Cary on with life.

Its sad your selfish disgusting thought process.

Not only do you want to break a mans heart you want him to shed his dignity like pearls before swine.

yall are adding things to what I said. I never said grovel, whine, or bytch nothing like that. His reaction was straight whatever showing no emotion. shoot people show more emotion when the lose prizes at the fair. Whats the point in being with someone who clearly doesn't care if you are there or not? That's why i said she didn't really take an L because he didn't care for her.

 

[Taadow]

Breh, no gold digger would look in this dude's general direction, much be around for 10 months

97' Camry? I'll get 'em for all he's got

Playboy, you ain't knowin'...

Gold Diggers are Space Age now; they know every nicca has something they can use.

For example - a '97 Camry is a come up if she's pushing a '95 Cavalier.

And the way she described his appearance, he looks like one of them hipsters living off trusts in new Brooklyn
or one of them vegan-ass dudes on the West...gold diggers are knowing them dudes don't floss their chit.

 

[Claudex]

yall are adding things to what I said. I never said grovel, whine, or bytch nothing like that. His reaction was straight whatever showing no emotion. shoot people show more emotion when the lose prizes at the fair. Whats the point in being with someone who clearly doesn't care if you are there or not? That's why i said she didn't really take an L because he didn't care for her.

What's the point of arguing with someone who doesn't want to be with you any longer? His decision to accept her break up as final doesn't mean he didn't care about her. Yo, she broke up with him because he was happy with where he was in life and she wasn't. He was most likely hurt but was man enough to let her go instead of losing his shyt.

 

[Remote]

well if they person isnt special why were you with them in the first place? seems like you should be the one to end it not them. yea it might be women who only agree with me. So what?

one minute yall say women cant make up their mind. now you are saying they we never change out mind. Which is it with you men?

When a woman ends a relationship, she doesn't come to that decision easily.

When the guys here say that women are fickle, within the context of TLR...they've generally meant that women will be in love with a man 1 day, and divorce him another day. Hence, get married brehs...and all that shyt. In love, out of love...lack of commitment, etc...

Now I have my issues with that, but that's another discussion.

However, there's no fickle-ness when it comes to ending a relationship. Generally women don't ever go back to a man once she has decided to leave. That's about the firmest decision that women make.

So if a woman chooses to leave a man, that's it. Period.

And if you leave a man, you're not entitled to anything from him. Not his love, not any emotional reactions, nothing. And frankly, why would you want to? Why do you need that validation? Why do you need to know that he still cares if YOU DON'T?

And if you DID still care, why are you ending it in the first place?

See what I'm saying?

 

[KinksandCoils]

Why should he show emotion?

If you get called into the office right now and are told your being let go, security will escort you out.

Although it may hurt losing your job you think IMA kick and scream get angry ask why?

No this decision was made long in advance and nothing I do will change the outcome so I'll go maintain my dignity and Cary on with life.

Its sad your selfish disgusting thought process.

Not only do you want to break a mans heart you want him to shed his dignity like pearls before swine.

those are different emotions.One is a job and one is a relationship. like I said if you dont care if a person goes then why are you with them? I can see if the relationship was just built on sex.

 

[KinksandCoils]

What's the point of arguing with someone who doesn't want to be with you any longer? His decision to accept her break up as final doesn't mean he didn't care about her. Yo, she broke up with him because he was happy with where he was in life and she wasn't. He was most likely hurt but was man enough to let her go instead of losing his shyt.

I never said they had to have an argument.

 

[Art Barr]

Exactly. People forget the stages of dating. Early on all someone cares about on a lot of occassions is getting to know the person and their personality. Seeing how chemistry is and if the vibe is there. At some point if you see the person as someone you could build towards a future with you start judging other variables. Women especially start wondering "will we have the house, will we be able to afford to have kids, or take vacations". If the man shows no interest or any motivation in any of that you can't knock a woman for bouncing.

The same ones shytting on this woman would be the same ones bytching in other threads about women being dumb for fukking with broke ass dudes with nothing going on for them.

I can say I am not ever mad at the guy who is broke and has a mate or a few mates.
as, I am the broke ass dude who typically has two female consistent mates.
plus, other female mate on an inconsistent level.
plus, imo...
I don't think you can really have a bunch of money and activities and a bunch of females.
as being with two females sexually everyday.
plus, the consistent third female daily sex partner leaves no room for nuffin else, anyway.
so, you will never see me mad at the broke guy with action.
as, I am the broke guy with action and I love when I turn that action on, and enjoy when I can sleep in my real bed, too.


Art Barr

 

[iBrowse]

If a girl said she was breaking up, her mind is made up.
The fukk I look like reacting and begging her to stay and shyt?

I'd be like , too.

I wouldn't want to stress or chase after some woman who didn't want to be with me.

I'm saying, its the man's fault the woman is breaking up with him and its his fault for not trying to change her mind

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

*TL;DR - My boyfriend kept his wealth a secret from me throughout our entire relationship. I ended the relationship on the pretext that he wasn't money/career motivated, he didn't say anything to the contrary. *

There's absolutely nothing wrong with ending the relationship based on this pretext.

The problem is this: the fact that he gets large checks doesn't change this fact. Dudes friend confirmed he had no interest in spending it. So why does she wanna get back with him after learning of the checks? Their "views on money and the future" still don't mesh.

I ain't saying she's a gold digger....

 

[Art Barr]

those are different emotions.One is a job and one is a relationship. like I said if you dont care if a person goes then why are you with them? I can see if the relationship was just built on sex.

after, she insulted the guy at the core of his being.
what response did you expect him to have for her?


Art Barr

 

[ellessij]

yall are adding things to what I said. I never said grovel, whine, or bytch nothing like that. His reaction was straight whatever showing no emotion. shoot people show more emotion when the lose prizes at the fair. Whats the point in being with someone who clearly doesn't care if you are there or not? That's why i said she didn't really take an L because he didn't care for her.

If some guy dumped you and just ended things after 10 months of you doing nothing wrong/no ill behavior towards him, you'd be texting him and trying to talk to him?
I'd hope you have too much self respect for that. That's what this guy is doing, someone dumps you, don't cling on hit em with the

 

[KinksandCoils]

On the coli people want to act tough. I bet everyone who has had someone breakup with them has had some kind of emotion when someone said they doent want to be with you. Even if it was fukk you bytch, thats an emotion too. If a guy will diss you when he turns you down than you know words will be said during a breakup..... ole coli gangsters