Dude Became a Baby Daddy... Stock Just Went to Zero

[Gold]

Story sounds funny.

Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.

 

[Striving For Greatness]

You weren’t interested anyway. Stop leading him on or give him some butt

 

[Barlow]

I did before he had a kid...yet he still tries. Men do that all the time.

If he tried to get at you before how is he just looking for a mom and why are you still talking to him in the first place

I swear women just be keeping nikkas around just to have something to gossip about

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

He kept trying to assure me that he didn't have any baby momma drama ...so unfortunate for him. He gonna be giving that speech for the rest of his life.

 

[Blankthawtz]

humble brag thread......strange thing for a female to do tho....

 

[Gold]

I did before he had a kid...yet he still tries. Men do that all the time.

We do it all the time if we've had some modicum of success.

Its actually not normal for a dude to hit a up woman persistently and over a long period of time if she shows no interest.

That ventures into the weird/stalker/creep side

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If he tried to get at you before how is he just looking for a mom and why are you still talking to him in the first place

I swear women just be keeping nikkas around just to have something to gossip about

I haven't even been talking to him. Wtf are you talking about? He clearly was in a whole situationship for awhile...which is why he has a whole kid.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Dude been trying to get with me for the longest but no sparks ever happened. He was cool though. I haven't talked to him in a year and he just called me and told me he's now a baby daddy and wants to go to dinner.

He's probably looking for a mom for his kid. I think Imma block him #. Seems like the right thing to do.

I feel u. Half his check probably goin to child support too

 

[Voice of Reason]

Dude been trying to get with me for the longest but no sparks ever happened. He was cool though. I haven't talked to him in a year and he just called me and told me he's now a baby daddy and wants to go to dinner.

He's probably looking for a mom for his kid. I think Imma block him #. Seems like the right thing to do.

You're too old to be talking about "sparks"

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I did before he had a kid...yet he still tries. Men do that all the time.

But how he just call you, tho? Did you ask how he got your info? Did you not tell him it wasnt cool?

If you blocked him before, he got your number, how is it that the was even able entertain taking you to dinner?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

We do it all the time if we've had some modicum of success.

Its actually not normal for a dude to hit a up woman persistently and over a long period of time if she shows no interest.

That ventures into the weird/stalker/creep side

Nah I think it comes down to ego and pride. A lot of men think they can whine and dine you out your panties because other women fall for it. He just got a house. I think he thinks if he can just get me to see the house after he whines and dines me, that I will change my mind.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

But how he just call you, tho? Did you ask how he got your info? Did you not tell him it wasnt cool?

If you blocked him before, he got your number, how is it that the was even able entertain taking you to dinner?

He has my number because it hasn't changed in years.

 

[xoxodede]

He just wants sex.

So, it sounds like the best decision.

He just had a child. He should work it out with his child's mother.

Block and delete.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

He has my number because it hasn't changed in years.

Oh HE changed his number, so you didnt recognize it, ok.

So when you did answer and realized it was him.

How was he even able to get to asking you out to dinner?

I would assume you'd cut the convo short.

 

[JuvenileHell]

Story sounds funny.

Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.

To be honest this sounds a lot more plausible than the OP (Nothing against the OP)