Elle Driver
Veteran
He still gone be on you heavy unless you bluntly tell him no.
So block him or step up to the plateI haven't even been talking to him. Wtf are you talking about? He clearly was in a whole situationship for awhile...which is why he has a whole kid.
Story sounds funny.
Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.
What’s funny is this is most likely true
Should have a fam with him BM. Ain't nobody trying to play mommy to these crumb snatchers. LolSo block him or step up to the plate
what happened to celebrating black love and raising kids?
Story sounds funny.
Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.
Nah I've seen a house before breh. I grew up in one. Lol It ain't that serious. You gotta be a buckethead to give up the panties for a mortgage that has nothing to do with you.
Ok.Idk what kinda interactions you have with women but I don't treat people like shyt because I'm not interested. He called and we had a casual conversation about his parenthood. He asked and I declined. I don't block people unless they act crazy. It's not that serious.
Not even trying to be funny. It’s just the truth. This is how lot of women act when a man that owned their pu55y has a child with another woman.
So you supposedly ignore someone for a year but then know he just bought a house?
Smh at you looking up the listing just so you can see what the inside looks like.
Probably calling him with suggestions for interior renovations/decorating tips and he’s confused as fukk bc he never showed you the house.
Leave that man alone or play your role.
@™BlackPearl The Empress™ your attraction ever drop to zero on a dude who broke up with you
I only ask this cuz I’m goin out sad on my ex 3 months later being vulnerable with my feelings n shyt.
I agreeShould have a fam with him BM. Ain't nobody trying to play mommy to these crumb snatchers. Lol