Dude Became a Baby Daddy... Stock Just Went to Zero

[Gold]

Nah I think it comes down to ego and pride. A lot of men think they can whine and dine you out your panties because other women fall for it. He just got a house. I think he thinks if he can just get me to see the house after he whines and dines me, that I will change my mind.

that explains it

you gonna fall for it one day on some "fine, lets see this house u keep talking about "

Then you enter the kitchen, and his Fridge starts talking to you

It dims the lights, cools the alcohol, and plays Luther V







issa wrap after that, i know the vibes

 

[Legalese]

Story sounds funny.

Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.

nikka said at his leisure

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Oh HE changed his number, so you didnt recognize it, ok.

So when you did answer and realized it was him.

How was he even able to get to asking you out to dinner?

I would assume you'd cut the convo short.

Idk what kinda interactions you have with women but I don't treat people like shyt because I'm not interested. He called and we had a casual conversation about his parenthood. He asked and I declined. I don't block people unless they act crazy. It's not that serious.

 

[old boy]

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word. i've come to learn that sarcasm & subtext is challenging to some nikkas b lol

but only in the black community do women believe that single mothers will or should be valued on the same scale as childless women. the delusion is fascinating. a single white unmarried woman, especially one with a kid outta wedlock no less, is under no such delusions. bytch know what it is

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

that explains it

you gonna fall for it one day on some "fine, lets see this house u keep talking about "

Then you enter the kitchen, and his Fridge starts talking to you

It dims the lights, cools the alcohol, and plays Luther V







issa wrap after that, i know the vibes

Nah I've seen a house before breh. I grew up in one. Lol It ain't that serious. You gotta be a buckethead to give up the panties for a mortgage that has nothing to do with you.

 

[Mike809]

So if it wasnt for the kid , he would have been a free dinner

 

[Rekkapryde]

No sparks ever happened but you still want to go dinner with him?

that nikka Suga Free hell. nikka be havin me like "Do I need to hit the corner ?? "

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

It be that way sometimes. We don’t wife these single parents.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It be that way sometimes. We don’t wife these single parents.

That's all I'm trying to tell them.

 

[Wild self]

Story sounds funny.

Sounds like he fukkd, repeatedly. At his leisure. On his schedule. You caught feelings. He didn't reciprocate at same level. Time went by. He got his girl (who you knew about) pregnant. First couple months as a father have finally passed and he's settled into the new routine. His schedule is now predictable so now he has some time for you again. He just called. You want to answer. But you feel kinda sleazy now so you decide to concoct a scenario whereby it is you that is in control of the situation. He won't trip bc you'll respond. You will meet for dinner. You'll crack jokes about him being a father and his baby mama. He will laugh, then tell you he's stressed. You'll say "oh so that's why you wanted to see me?" You will act offended but he won't buy it. You will end up in his car, your head bobbing up and down.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So if it wasnt for the kid , he would have been a free dinner

If I wanted free dinner the kid wouldn't stop me lol

 

[ADK]

Women are so cruel

 

[Commish]

Lady BPTE,

Breh's stock was @ zero way before he had a kid. Once no spark(on your end)was established, he was done!

Perhaps him being a single dad only confirmed what you already concluded way back, which is OK. He moved on before and will have to do so again.

It is what it is...

 

[Coco Loco]

Good for you. Don't need any baby mama bs in your life. Plus the weather is about to break. Can't be tied up with someone else's problem.

 

[Wild self]

This probably 100% accurate

OP is prolly the corniest most sentitive coli brehette on here, so i can picture that being the case.

We were warned about her a while ago from you know who.