nikkas who work with a lot of women see it. Usually this is the plan:They really want a man to make a million per year, while she lives her best version of "Love and Hip Hop" lifestyle.
nikkas who work with a lot of women see it. Usually this is the plan:
1. Go to school and get a degree in a field that hires a lot of women(nursing, education, psychology, marketing)
2. Meet a man in your last year of school. Usually someone outside your field(Engineering, specialized medicine, computer science, law, a high value trade like electricity or metalworking)
3. Work full time until he proposes. Work a couple more years full time or at most 1 year then switch to a part time position.
4. Get pregnant and max out that mat leave time. Come back and work even less hours while he pays more, or basically just quit your job and be a full time mom.
You see the cycle over and over again.
What about him. He’s in his early 60’s and has been retired for years. His wife works when and if she wants to. They are both debt free. He prefers her to work to cover her independent expenses but she’s had long periods of times where she hasn’t. He may not like it but he owns the bulk of the responsibility. It helped that they have been debt free including mortgages for a long time so it really wasn’t a lot. He has been financially free for a while.and your father?
@Rhyse still keeping this same energy?
I still stand by what I said because that’s the way I was raised. Also, people need to realize when you have a lot of kids where you have to make more to provide a comfortable living then there are sacrifices. Every family is situational with caveats. I didn’t have more kids than I could handle and neither did my parents..... With that being said providing does not mean spoiling and not properly rearing your kids. Sometimes as parents no matter what you do it will always be too much of something and too little of something else. We are all humans and flawed. There’s no instruction manual to life, marriage, and raising kids.
How you were raised has nothing to do with “building”
People rather sit on their ass all day. Literally